Maybe not as far out as you seem to think
First of all, the idea of a church dating from the first century in that part of England isn't that far out. There are legends (see DaVinci Code) that Joseph of Arimathea wound up in Glastonbury with followers built the first monastery in Britain there -- in the first century. Once you dispose of that major "hole" the rest of the objections seem to just be routine plot devices -- Deus ex machina so to speak. Maybe each of these people over the centuries were given a second chance -- the memory of who or what they were wiped out before an event -- and she was one who chose to get involved and redeem herself. I'd like to think that everyone gets a second chance and that nothing we do is so grave that God will turn his back on us forever.