Things I like and don't like about the Amish
Like:
(1) Not very likely to mug you.
(2) They practice environmentally sustainable farming.
(3) As a group, they don't fall in lockstep with society.
(4) They like purple martins.
(5) Pacifism. It's not, exactly, for me, but I admire it anyway.
(6) Self-sufficiency as a community.
(7) Rumspringa. This should really be at the top of the list. Baptizing babies before their skulls' sutures have even fused is crazy.
Don't like:
(a) Shunning. Any church that practices shunning does so solely because it's afraid that it can't keep its members without holding the threat over their heads--no matter what other reasons they may give for the practice. And it's flat out mean.
(b) Poorly educated. 8th grade, then nothing. And if you're thinking they're being taught by highly trained educators--or even teachers with a lot of experience--think again. Enough education for manual labor is plenty, as far as they're concerned.
(c) WAY, WAY too many kids. (So I have to take back some of the credit I gave them in (2) above.) Maybe (b) holds them back from knowing that the world has too many kids already. Maybe (b) holds them back from realizing that all those kids are why their farming land keeps getting smaller and smaller through subdivision, and that's why so many of their kids have to go work in factories at low-level jobs.
(d) Individuality discouraged/punished. Hell, you don't even get to pick out your own clothes.
(e) Even with the orange triangles, their buggies are a menace, especially in hilly country. (I lived around them for a long time.)
(f) Their whole view of technology is confused and inconsistent. For two decades I've been listening to people talk about the underlying principle for the technology thing, and it seems like there are a million different explanations. I don't think even most AMISH know the explanation. The one explanation I've heard that makes sense to me is that it has nothing to do with technology as such, but with keeping the flock socially apart from us English. As in (a), it's motivated by fear that the Amish religion can't "compete" on a level playing field with the outside world, and would die off.
(g) I (and others) have found them not terribly friendly, unless they want to sell something. Of course I'm what they're trying to keep themselves apart from, so why *should* they be friendly with me? Friendliness may lead to wearing jeans, which might lead to--GASP--a different religion.
(g) Child sexual abuse in the community is far too often hushed up.