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this show makes me so angy


this show just pisses me off what mother in her right mind would to the determent of her other children treat one child so much better then the other two? ugh your dumb ass daughter knew that if she didn't finish her classes she would fail and lose her full time status and lose daycare so what does she do ohhhh my class was to early i didnt feel like going can you give me the money you been saving for your other child so i can take summer classes at a time i like better? and the dumb bitch gets the money ohhhhh hell no

you have to ask yourself are you a fighter, or are you zombie food

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I must have missed this one, I still have not seen them all

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oh youll see it and youll wanna punch all of them in the face for being so dumb lol

you have to ask yourself are you a fighter, or are you zombie food

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Huh?

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I hear you, OP. That is definitely one time where I thought Reba was 100% WRONG. Reba was a great mom all in all and I think it's great she was supportive of her teen daughter's situation, getting pregnant in high school and having a baby so young, but that help should not have come at the expense of Reba's other kids. Cheyenne was so pampered and spoiled sometimes it was pathetic. She knew she would lose Elizabeth's daycare if she dropped her classes, but she did it anyway because she knew, like always, Mommy would be there to bail her out no matter what. Cheyenne did not deserve to be bailed out on this one. She knew Kyra wanted and deserved to go on that trip to Europe, yet Cheyenne not only allowed, but begged her mom to give that money to her instead to correct her OWN bad decision. Reba should not have done that, Cheyenne needed to learn a lesson. It was time for her to grow up and realize that life doesn't let you cherry pick the consequences of your actions, especially at other people's expense. Cheyenne was incredibly lucky college was an opportunity for her at all and her choice to just discard her classes that her parents paid a lot of money for showed she didn't take that opportunity seriously. Teen parent or not, if I paid all that money for my kid to go to school and she dropped her classes like it was nothing, just because she wasn't into them, they weren't convenient, etc., I would have serious reservation about paying for more school for her until she was more certain about what she wanted for her future. Hello? What does she think life will be like when she gets a job? It wouldn't have set Cheyenne's education back so much to have to sit out for one semester, she created the situation for herself and she needed to live with it.

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How is she pampered more than Kyra, who lives like she's the biggest brain in the universe?

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Instead of like most parents, Reba didn't force her to get an abortion or put the baby up for adoption. she was allowed to marry Van who was a complete idiot allowed them to live at home. Whenever Kyra tried to be mature, Reba shot her down, comparing her to Cheyenne

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I agree, OP and I was so mad at Reba too, for giving her the money for her classes, when Kyra is the one who deserved that trip to England. I never felt sorry for Reba when she was so upset that Kyra decided to move in with Broc - and he said it best, that maybe for once, she could be the kid and not the adult. I could not tolerate the way she played "favorites" with her children, and then was shocked when one of them no longer wanted to live under her roof. This show hit home with me, being in the same situation with a mother who gave her love to only some of her children, while leaving the rest of us behind. And I think in some ways, this show glorified teen preganancy, without showing a realistic view of the trials and tribulations a young mother and father must really endure.

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" I think in some ways, this show glorified teen preganancy, without showing a realistic view of the trials and tribulations a young mother and father must really endure."



Tell me about it! Cheyenne's life was portrayed as way too idyllic for her situation. Her baby's daddy, the handsome star quarterback of the football team, who was completely in love with her, stood by her from the beginning, no questions asked, and married her right away at the cost of his relationship with his own parents. They got to live together in her mother's big house, and it didn't appear either of them had to work to pay for a thing, or even see a bill. I don't even remember ever seeing Van or Cheyenne helping out around the house. They didn't appear to have to give up any of their friends or activities. They wore cute little bride and groom t shirts and puka shell wedding rings to school, like it was some fun game. They had this beautiful baby you almost never saw them caring for, and Cheyenne had all the benefits of living with her mom, someone to babysit all the time, pay all the bills, do all the household chores, and keep her in designer clothes. They both finished high school with no trouble and Cheyenne immediately went on to college, again without having to pay a dime, not even so much as a whisper of a student loan. All in all, her life wasn't affected too much by getting pregnant and having a baby in high school. Very unrealistic.

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Well said, sexykitten! I agree and I detested the way Reba seemed to neglect her other children all for the sake of Cheyenne and her baby. It really was not a realistic picture and certainly did not demonstrate Reba to be a very good mother to her other children.

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I never caught that Reba showed anymore love for Cheyenne, who she seemed to make fun of along with her son-in-law, but I also had no idea she actually gave the brat Cheyenne money when it should have been Kyra's!

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I hated that episode so much, I hated Cheyenne just a little bit more than Reba. I felt so sorry for Kyra and her situation and not just in this episode, she had to suffer and constantly be pushed aside because her stupid sister got knocked up. I understood why she ran to her dad.
What I think shoukd have been done is a)Cheyenne loses Elizabeth's daycare because of her own mistakes b) Brock goes half and half for both girls c) if Kyra can't go to London then give her some kind of compensation, send her to Austin, NYC, a new ipod ot tv I her room something! And to top it all of nobody wanted to discuss the reason Kyra left. Brock brought it up once to Reba but it needed to be addressed more ND to Cheyenne Van and Reba together so they could see how their actions were hurting Kyra.

Brian Kinney & Justin Taylor

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I think the episode of the career fair happened after Kyra moved out. Cheyenne and Van ditched the fair. Normally this wouldn't be a big deal, but it shows they haven't learned anything.

Brian Kinney & Justin Taylor

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"at the cost of his relationship with his own parents" Do you remember what Van's parents were like? No loss.

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YES. And when Reba used elizabeth as an excuse. no. Cheyenne and Van are Elizabeths apparently irresponsible parents, is not Reba OR KYRA's fault. Screw Cheyenne and her families problem, Reba's #1 responsibility was to Kyra. Too bad about Elizabeth's daycare, which is HER PARENTS fault. Reba should have said 'sorry, sucks for you all, but the money is going to Kyra who EARNED and DESERVES this money'. I agree, it still pisses me off and I again do not blame Kyra at all for moving in with her dad. I completely feel for Kyra in this show. I relate a lot to her and if anything she handled this situation very maturely for someone that just got screwed. Trying to understand Cheyenne's situation.

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Well said,gettosgirl!

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I agree with all of you. Reba was always bailing Van and Cheyenne out whenever they screwed up. This time Reba should have let Cheyenne fall on her butt for her irresponsibility and told her sorry, you're SOL. That money is going to Kyra, who earned and deserved that opportunity to study abroad. Instead poor Kyra missed out on that great opportunity because of Cheyenne. Grrr. I know parents make mistakes and Reba didn't use her best judgement. If it were my daughter I would tell her sorry, you screwed up so you're out of luck. You want to go back to school, get a job and pay for it yourself. Most parents wouldn't or can't bail out their children let alone all the time. And it's always the other kids who get screwed over or ignored because of CHEYENNE AND VAN. Kyra handled that so maturely. Completely agree with everybody, especially ghettosgirl.

You have to stop the Q-Tip when there's resistance!

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Except, Kera didn't earn the money, Reba did. She can do with it what she pleases. Yes, Cheyenne screwed up royally, but I think her classes are just a little bit more important than a trip.

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the trip was a chance for Kyra to study abroad in England. which is more important? classes which Cheyenne eventually dropped to change majors or a chance for a middle/high schooler to expand her education in Europe for the summer?

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classes which Cheyenne eventually dropped to change majors
That's not a fair point to Reba. If the future was any predictor, Brock could've held off on buying a house to pay for the trip, if it was that important, or they could've just let her drop out knowing in the future Van would make enough money to pay for her classes.

a chance for a middle/high schooler to expand her education in Europe for the summer?
That's a luxury, not a necessity. She was 14 years old.

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'Then' and 'than' are completely different words and have completely different meanings.

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Sheesh! The Reba Hart character does the very best with what she's dealt with! I would be proud for a friend or relative to be as productive and managing a family in her situation. She became a real estate agent (has a job) and keeps her home. She (Reba) deals so pleasantly with her former husband's new wife that it's admirable too. Hey, it's just a comedy, but has some good feelings toward a situation like this. I would only hope this sit-com could be repeated in real life among families in the same situation. The alternative is nastiness and anger. Please, let's hope divorces could end this way!

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Sheesh! The Reba Hart character does the very best with what she's dealt with! I would be proud for a friend or relative to be as productive and managing a family in her situation. She became a real estate agent (has a job) and keeps her home. She (Reba) deals so pleasantly with her former husband's new wife that it's admirable too. Hey, it's just a comedy, but has some good feelings toward a situation like this. I would only hope this sit-com could be repeated in real life among families in the same situation. The alternative is nastiness and anger. Please, let's hope divorces could end this way!

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I agree that Reba made the wrong decision, but I think that people just let Brock off the hook too easily. Why didn't he come in and talk Reba out of it or at least try to reason with her. He let her go ahead without saying a word and that's his daughter too and then he's all too happy to play the nice guy and take her in when she gets pissed with Reba.

I'm not saying Reba wasn't to blame, but I think Brock shares that responsibility equally.

And not that this has anything to do with this situation, but Kyra is really a whiny brat. I guess they're just trying to show a typical rebellious teenager, but she irritates me at times.



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It's a sitcom You people need to get a life.

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I don't think Brock knew what Reba really did with the money until it was too late (to be fair, I think Reba was under a time crunch to get the money in to the college to get Cheyenne back into classes and keep Elizabeth's daycare.) In fact, he didn't know until Reba came back and hit him up for more money, which he couldn't do, since anything spare he had was tied up in the new house that he and Barbara Jean had just bought.

But Reba's rant at Brock about why she didn't want Kyra moving out revealed something pretty disturbing about Reba--she was relying on Kyra to be the 'other adult' in that household, and that seemed to be the only reason why she was having a pissy fit about the kid moving out. Sorry, but no--if Reba needs another adult in the house so bad, then she should get one of her girlfriends to move in, *not* force her tween daughter into that part. Reba becoming co-dependent on her *child* is not Brock's fault, that's on Reba. Brock called it right when he told Reba that Kyra needed to be a kid again, which wasn't going to happen at Reba's house.

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yep... love reba but you're right on the last two to three sentences in your post there,
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