Why can't people in these movies do what the kidnappers want?
They always do the same thing in these movies, resist, find ways to thwart them, fight, struggle and make things tough for them when they're gambling with their loved one's life.
If they would just shut up, and do what they're told they will get their loved one back.
"What are you some kind of half-assed astronaut?" - 'Quint' in JAWS