Truly French?


Is this situation something that would really happen in France? Having never been there, but having done extensive research on the culture, there were alot of societal occurrences that would make sense in America but not in the France I thought I was getting to know. Here are a few examples:

1. Everyone feels they have the right to ask Vincent how his job is going. My research indicated that the French feel discussions regarding their career are private.

2. Okay, I'm having a hard time pinning down anything else. Something that did go along with my research was the fact that everyone, including the oldest son who is the closest to adulthood, was ready and willing to debate current issues of politics, etc.

I'm only asking because I've been suspicious of my research--books are always colored by either the author's experience or page restriction, and I don't want to believe something phoney.

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Do yourself a favour: travel, and specially to France since the culture entrusts you, because it's impossible to know a population through books, it's ridiculous, and what you say about the french not liking to talk about their job is absolute nonsense. I'm french, and i guarantee you that the french talk about everything, sex, their job, politics, culture etc, just as much as your average englishman or Italian. Wait for the dollar to reemerge and come and see us.

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Your comment was posted a long time ago but I wish to contribute to clarify it for you. The film is based on an the actual story of a man Jean-Claude Romand who killed his family and parents after years of deceit. Now I take that films don't necessarily reflect the culture of a country accurately. So are the books especially the ones written by foreigners who usually have lived on the bright side of the field while in France.

So to answer your question, French people do talk about their jobs (but it's really basic human conversation!) What they'll usually be reticent to talk about is how much they earn. That's commonly known as a cultural trait. Vincent is reluctant to talk about it because he's an impostor. But no one in France will feel offended if you ask questions about their jobs!

In France we talk and debate A LOT about politics and other various social subjects and practically at any age. I remember endless political arguments among my classmates when I was 15. Nothing odd here.

So as much as books are often a good source of knowledge, you can only understand a culture if you go and live with the people of a particular country. And even this way, you'll only have a partial knowledge as they are also many variations depending which part of the country you go and also the sort of people you come across.

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