I am a Norwegian and I actually just watched Elling on TV. I had not seen it for a while, probably not since 2001/2, and I had forgotten what an excellent little film this is :)
To the discussion about the drinking and smoking. Norway was no 2 in banning smoking in public areas (June, 2004) like pubs, restaurants etc - after Ireland, and there is no common acceptance for smoking that harms others, be they unborn children or other adults. Most smokers will be very considerate and most pregnant women will give up smoking while pregnant. That said, the characters in the film are all in the lower end of the social range and/or in the social welfare system - and norms are different among these. With the limited knowledge that both Elling and Bjarne has of life in general, and the philosopher life of Alfons, they may even not know or care about the effect smoking has on unborn children. The same goes for the drinking of Reidun.
Norwegian cinema rarely takes on the role of norm maker or educator, normally we would see whatever people in a given group would do rather than what we would like them to do. Personally I like that, it makes it more believable to me. Most of us do not wake up, after having stuntman sex all night, with our hair laid out nicely, makeup impeccable and shiny white teeth. Many, albeit decreasing, smoke - in their cars, while pregnant, in bed etc. while others swear, screw around on their spouse, use prostitutes or drugs, lie, steal and so on. Our films mostly depict that, be it good or bad.
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