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His mother's comment


When her mother-in-law came out and saw the cut on Slim's face, her comment of "what did you do?" annoyed the hell out of me.

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Slim did nothing to make Mitch beat her. It doesn't matter what Slim did. Mitch should not hit her.

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Wilsonandrewsc, exactly. That's why it really po'd me when his mother, after noticing the cut on Slim's face, said "what did you do?"

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Me too because she did not do anything and there is no excuse for what he did.

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Some people are like that - blame the victim and ignore the perpetrator's actions. Occasionally, my parents would go out for the evening and use one of my brothers and sisters to babysit me. So my brother and I put a kite together to occupy the evening. However, I had trouble understanding the directions. I was 10 and he was 21. Kids are more careless about running into the street without looking than adults are. That can happen if you lose hold of a kite and it blows into the street. So I'm sure they purposely made the directions at an adult reading level so that there would more likely be adult supervision when making and ultimately flying the kite. Whenever I couldn't understand the directions, my brother yelled at me and hit me (not lightly, but very hard and painfully). I was crying and hysterical because of what he was doing. When my parents finally came home and we finished the kite, my mom first saw the kite (but not us) and said, "Having fun?" When she walked further into the room and saw me crying and hysterical, she looked at me funny like I was the one who had done something wrong. I didn't tell her what happened, but she wouldn't have listened to me anyway.

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I hated that mother too. But what I found particularly interesting is that usually men learn that behavior from their fathers. But if you watch the wedding scenes closely, you see and hear Mitch's mom say "Then I'm happy to pay for the wedding." NOT "we're" happy to. And Mitch's dad is not even consulted, and he pipes up timidly "Yes, we're very happy."

I got the feeling Mitch's mom wore the pants, so maybe Mitch is both a Momma's boy and didn't want his marriage to be like his parents'.


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Mitch shouldn´t have hit her? Is that REALLY a comment? I think they PRETTTTYYYY well established that Mitch is evil and a villain. Of COURSE he is used to hitting women...Lord people. He had NO conscience about it.

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my ex mother in law was the same way. her precious son did no wrong, even when he cheated on me she blamed me (if I satisfied him at home he wouldn't have cheated), he did no wrong in her eyes

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Ug I hate people like that. When my mom left my dad after years of cheating people told her that it was her fault he cheated. I was like seriously? She loved my dad VERY much, did everything for him, gave him 3 children, loved him, etc. What more could he have wanted from her?

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Yeah, my ex's mother was the same way. I remember her saying to me -"I'm willing to help you all I can, but if you keep ALLOWING him to beat you, I can't do anything." I was trying to find a place to go and she said that to me as if I was in control of the situation.

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Yeah, my ex's mother was the same way. I remember her saying to me -"I'm willing to help you all I can, but if you keep ALLOWING him to beat you, I can't do anything." I was trying to find a place to go and she said that to me as if I was in control of the situation.

What your ex's mother was saying is that if you keep allowing yourself to get beaten, theres no point of her wasting time in helping you. You are in control in the sense where you can defend yourself and get help, your choice.

I have two sisters and I've told them "if you allow your boyfriend/husband to lay his hands on you and you act like nothing happened because you think its love, then you are no victim, make your choice."

My father hasnt laid a finger to my mother after 30 years married, why should it happen to my sisters?

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I see that Mitch's mother was a naive bimbo with a history of dating monsters.

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I saw it as a line to set up that Mitch has a history of violence or that he potentially learned the violence from one of the parents.

"Dwight, you ignorant slut!"

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I agree 100% with your comment. I thought the mother in law's comment was deplorable.

However, it was an effective scene in the movie. It shows how families tend to want to sweep issues like DV under the rug (as opposed to helping the victim).

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