The Ending...........IMO
I thought this was a very good film although like most people on this board I would have liked a better ending. That was my opnion the first time I seen this film but on the second viewing I did agree with the story. I know most people prefer a happy ending with closure but that is not necessarly what life affords us.
I just wanted her character to be happy.........whether it was a gay or straight relationship. It seems her very understanding mother would accept a lesbian lifestyle for her daughter to insure her happiness but remember what she (her mother) said about not appearing in the play in the 6th grade...... "This is a child who will suffer in life" (something to that affect). Jessica had previously said to her mother- "I think I'm going to end up alone". I do believe that self prophecy was very accurate!
The point of the film was not if Jessica was gay or straight but whether she would ever have happiness to fulfill her life. If just being friends with her former gay lover made her happy, at least for the time being, well, so be it, but I doubt if that would be enough to fulfill her life. Some people just end up surving and that's the best they can do.