bj kuehl-
Yes, I found many parts of it believable. What I didn't like was that I felt that the film's ending was a little too simplistic and "romanticized" even for a love story. For this kind of love story anyway. I guess I wanted them to show the trainwreck, not the delusion (or the hope if you want to call it that).
Yet, when all is said and done- you are probably right in that the film is not all that unrealistic if you are looking at their vantage point as lovers rather than the veiwers'.
About your story- wow, interesting that you should share that. There are too many of us out there I guess. Similar tale here, so I wasn't just talking off the top of my head either. We didn't marry, just stayed together for a long time. For some reason, I didn't learn anything at first. Did this with not one, but two very similar relationships. The second was hell. More than a decade of my life and then some recovering from the wreckage, emotional and otherwise. I'm glad you survived yours too. There's too much that can go wrong when things are... well, all wrong.
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