Was Ben "straight"?


I'm not sure how to explain this, but I got the feeling that Ben is "straighter" than most of the other guys, certainly straighter than Michael is. After all, he's masculine, strong (both physically and emotionally), a top, and has had sex with females before.

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Ironically the actor is gay in real life. And hot! And he played one of Phoebes boyfriends in Friends.

Perhaps straight is the wrong word?

I will have to rewatch QaF: USA to refresh my memory, I didn't know that Ben had had sex with women. Or I must have forgotten.

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has had sex with females before.


That doesn't mean anything. Wanda Sykes had a husband once. Sometimes, People are in denial and try to force themselves to be straight




"I told my man I'm going to get a pap smear. he said 'bring me one no mustard'" - Adele Givens

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Yes he is quite masculine and the kind of guy that a guy would not come onto because people do not assume he is gay ever.

It is the same with me. Men don't come onto me since I don't appear gay but in other situations like a gay bar or club men men are a lot more comfortable trying.

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Dont equate masculinity and strength with heterosexuality.
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^This!

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Yes, I know Ben is homosexual, but I meant "straight" in terms of his personality, not his sexual orientation (which is why I put "straight" in quotes). He doesn't act stereotypically gay.

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Yes, I know Ben is homosexual, but I meant "straight" in terms of his personality, not his sexual orientation (which is why I put "straight" in quotes). He doesn't act stereotypically gay.

Neither does Brian...except for the whole constantly having sex with men thing.

So sad to hear that the boards are being closed. I'll miss you all! :(

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