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Confusion about Irene's feelings about Soames


I'm trying to get through The Forsyte Saga before Netflix yanks it in a couple of weeks. It's been in my queue for years.

I'm only on episode 3 at this point, but it's clear Irene has such disdain for Soames. This confuses me. In episode 1 when they first meet, he goes to the boardwalk one morning expecting to see her. She looks out the window and sees him there to which she smiles and acts very glad.

Why would she act glad that Soames wanted to see her but then be so indifferent and sometimes hateful concerning him every other moment?

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We must have watched two different series. Irene looked anything but happy to see Soames. She looked resigned.

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First, this is a deeply layered show with very layered characters that requires multiple viewings to really get it. As you watch, remember that none of the characters are meant to be all good or all bad; they're like real people, a mixture of good, bad, and in between.

All was fine at first. Irene was open enough to him when they met at opera or symphony. Things start to go pear shaped at the art gallery, when Irene realizes they have no commonality and in fact view art, life, everything as polar opposites. Then he goes off the rails creepy on her at the restaurant, when he removes her glove. Won't say anymore for fear of spoiling for you.

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Respectfully disagree. Simply because one is a pathetic evil man does not erase the fact that he is evil. Soames is a pathetic and evil man.

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We can most certainly agree to respectfully disagree. IMO, it's too easy to write off Soames as evil as it is to write off Irene as a cold b!tch. Both are far more complex than that, which is what makes it so great. Again, IMO.

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Irene is a selfish cold parasitic manipulative bitch who continually plays the fragile victim in order to get her way, and she'll stop at nothing to get it; no matter who she has to run over or whose happiness she'll have to ruin, even her own son.

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I was thinking as I have continued to watch this that it is rare to see a movie or television production with multi-dimensional characters to this extent, so you are so right that they are a mixture of good, bad, and in between.

It's been an interesting experience to be put so on my toes as a viewer regarding Soames and Irene. I am constantly going back and forth about both of them trying to land on a side. As soon as I'm on one side, I'm jolted back to the other.

Has anyone reading this thread read the book? I imagine this complexity of character comes straight out of it.

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Whether the book has or lacks this complexity of character I couldn't answer. I tried to watch the older television version on Youtube but found the pace unbearable. The 2002 version seems to me a work of art in itself. You're right--I have *never* seen any series or film with characters as complicated as 2002's Irene, Soames--but also everyone else. Jolyon to me personified the modern-day wealthy liberal sensibility, with compassion for the world but spite in spades for people who step on his well-fed lawn (meaning Fleur).

Fleur unquestionably is both the worst victim and also the hero of the series. The closing scenes of her story (which I won't identify in case you haven't reached them) are an emotional drain, because the viewer KNOWS that, while she is doing the correct, healthy, sane thing by choosing to freely do what she does--THE SAME THING THAT IRENE DID--the likelihood of her struggling for *years* to achieve happiness is very high.

JUST AS IRENE, she starts life with a choice against her instincts; and for this, Jolyon is 100% to blame.

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I had a similar experience trying to watch the 1967 version. You're right, some of it was the pacing, which was quite slow. I too think the 2002 production is a work of art. I'll recommend Mad Men to you too, which has extremely complex characters. It's amazing to me how any show could last for 7 years and not only continue that level of character layers, but use the time to such great advantage.

It's interesting that you view Fleur as both worst victim and hero of the series. I don't see her as either one. While I think the actress who portrayed her did a great job, I found Fleur to be one of the least likable and layered characters, in addition to Monty.

She was very spoiled and terribly manipulative. A case could be made that she was a victim there because it wasn't her fault that Soames spoiled her so dreadfully. Fleur used people and thought nothing of lying to them to get her way. She was shades of her father in her obsession to get what and who she wanted, and damn the consequences. A very self-centered creature. She wanted to possess Jon in the same way Soames wanted to possess Irene, and June wanted to possess Bossiney. It was an unfortunate trait of some of the Forsytes.

I'll put a spoiler on the rest, in case PlatinumScreen hasn't seen part 2.

It was hypocritical of Jolyon to stand in the way of Fleur and Jon, given his background of leaving his wife for Helene -- for love. Irene finally realized that. He didn't like Soames, and with good reason. I think he could have overcome that, realizing that Fleur was a different person, had she not lied to him. That he couldn't forget or forgive, and he was reasonable in distrusting her for that reason. What reason would one have to trust someone you know has lied to you?

But he was in the end right, in that Fleur and Jon would never have made a good match. I pitied Michael Mont, who was not only enormously likable, but one of the few thoroughly decent characters.

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I agree with your comments about Fleur. Even her mother recognized the folly in Soames spoiling her so much. Fleur's lying and manipulations really bothered me. She did it so easily, and so often, it was nothing to her to be disloyal, deceitful, and treat others shabbily to get what she wanted. Honesty, delayed gratification, selflessness, sacrifice, loyalty, duty, honor, seemed entirely unimportant to her, things she appeared incapable of or unwilling to perform if they conflicted with her schemes.

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I'm sorry, but you have to give me examples of when Fleur was such a terrible person. Because I could only feel bad for the poor girl, albeit not quite as much as I feel bad for Irene, who is my favorite character in this series. Sure, she was her father's spoiled little princess. But he still could never save her from getting her heart broken, and I don't know if she ever became happy in her marriage to Michael Mont.

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Because I could only feel bad for the poor girl


Me too. The horrible thing about being Fleur is that she was damned no matter whether she acted out of a "sins of the father" frame of mind or out of...love. All the actors and actresses in this series were wonderful, and the actress (whose name I don't know) who played Fleur left it entirely up to the imagination as to which ruled her: the desire for control, or plain old love. I think she was a much more tragic figure than Irene.

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What makes Irene more tragic than Fleur to me is that Irene had lost both of her parents before she was off age, while Fleur still had both her father and her mother around her even after she had gotten married to Michael. So even though a heartbreak like that must be a terrible thing to go through, she had a family who cared about her. And even if Fleur's marriage was not a success either, I don't believe that she was battered or raped like Irene was by Soames. And yeah, I have to say that I also can relate much more to Irene's personality than to Fleur's. Nevertheless though, I will never deny that Fleur was treated unfairly by Jolyon and June.

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What makes Irene more tragic than Fleur to me is that Irene had lost both of her parents before she was off age, while Fleur still had both her father and her mother around her even after she had gotten married to Michael. So even though a heartbreak like that must be a terrible thing to go through, she had a family who cared about her. And even if Fleur's marriage was not a success either, I don't believe that she was battered or raped like Irene was by Soames. And yeah, I have to say that I also can relate much more to Irene's personality than to Fleur's. Nevertheless though, I will never deny that Fleur was treated unfairly by Jolyon and June.


Agree with everything you say here. Fleur's temperament and intellect, being the product of Soames' and Annette's DNA, would never be as sensitive to the exquisite misery of a marriage without love as Irene's was. Ignorance really is bliss.

But another thing I want to comment on. I've bleated about how Soames gets as many self-hating female admirers as he does because in this version he wears Damian Lewis' face. If Gina McKee had not played Irene, I don't think I would have stuck with the series from beginning to end. Handsome and twisted as both Soames and all three Jolyons are, that wouldn't have been enough for me. I mention this because Gina McKee's melancholy and her kind of beauty apparently don't reflect Galsworthy's Irene, who apparently should look more like...Fleur. I'd never have stuck with The Forsyte Saga if Irene had been played by a bouncy vedette.

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If Gina McKee had not played Irene, I don't think I would have stuck with the series from beginning to end. Handsome and twisted as both Soames and all three Jolyons are, that wouldn't have been enough for me. I mention this because Gina McKee's melancholy and her kind of beauty apparently don't reflect Galsworthy's Irene, who apparently should look more like...Fleur. I'd never have stuck with The Forsyte Saga if Irene had been played by a bouncy vedette.

As much as Irene maybe was more conventionally attractive in the novels and the 1967 adaption, she and Fleur were still very much different kinds of people. So I don't see the problem. But I do agree that Gina McKee was a very good Irene, even if Nyree Dawn Porter looked more like how the character was described in the novels.

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Fleur's temperament and intellect, being the product of Soames' and Annette's DNA, would never be as sensitive to the exquisite misery of a marriage without love as Irene's was.


That was no one but Fleur's fault. Michael Mont wanted to call the marriage off if she didn't love him, but she lied to him -- something she did with great frequency -- and said she did. Soames also gave her an out, despite his aversion to scandal and gossip, telling her right before the wedding she didn't have to go through with it. She married him anyway. If you ask me, Michael Mont deserved much better than the superficial, lying, manipulative Fleur.

But another thing I want to comment on. I've bleated about how Soames gets as many self-hating female admirers as he does because in this version he wears Damian Lewis' face. If Gina McKee had not played Irene, I don't think I would have stuck with the series from beginning to end. Handsome and twisted as both Soames and all three Jolyons are, that wouldn't have been enough for me.


I am not a self-hating female, nor am I blind to Soames' faults. Nor do I think Damian Lewis all that physically handsome, and many people automatically don't find red-headed men attractive at all. I don't know what I'd think of Soames if someone else played him. If they played him as multi-dimensionally as Lewis did, I'd undoubtedly think the same. I'd have been bored spitless had Soames been played as a simple villain, just as I'd have been equally bored had McKee played a simple heroine.

Handsome and twisted as both Soames and all three Jolyons are, that wouldn't have been enough for me.


Personally, I don't think Soames or the three Jolyons are handsome, or twisted. Soames is twisted, yes, but none of the three Jolyons were, and in my opinion, only Jon of the three was handsome. Old Jolyon certainly wasn't, nor was he twisted. Likewise Young Jolyon -- again, my opinion on his looks, as I don't find him attractive, and I certainly don't think he was twisted.

I mention this because Gina McKee's melancholy and her kind of beauty apparently don't reflect Galsworthy's Irene, who apparently should look more like...Fleur. I'd never have stuck with The Forsyte Saga if Irene had been played by a bouncy vedette.


Despite many who've read the books -- and even those who haven't -- criticizing Gina McKee's looks, I don't know that I would have stuck through it either had Irene been cast as, as you say, a "bouncy vedette," ala Fleur.

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Irene battered by Soames? You make it sound as if he was a regularly abusive man; I saw him force himself on her and bruising her wrists in the process on ONE occasion. I dare say this attack on her wasn't wholly unexpected as her cold psychological abuse and emotional torture and withholding as well as blatant infidelity would drive anyone mad. Irene is not an innocent victim, no matter how much she likes to play it, and Soames isn't completely bad; they both have faults, flaws, blame and bad behaviour, and they both have redeeming qualities.

I cannot understand how anyone can watch this series and see Irene as a complete innocent victim. Irene was to me an incredibly guileful and treacherous manipulative and disgusting character. Soames on the other hand I thought often to be misunderstood as bad for not being willing to spill all his and/or his wife's secrets and for being an incredibly reserved person who doesn't readily show his feelings or speak his mind. I think he had a good heart, and was ruined by his love for and marriage to Irene.

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Well, forcing himself upon a woman and bruising her wrist sounds like a kind of battering to me. So yes, I will have to say that Soames was abusive towards Irene. And did you by any chance forget that he actually raped her? But maybe you will try to defend him on that point too? Nothing will surprise me anymore, I guess... I will agree with you that Soames was not supposed to be a complete monster. He obviously cared about his father, his mother, his sister and his daughter. And heck, it seems like he wasn't even such a bad husband to Annette (his second wife). But still, his treatment of Irene was nothing but terrible. And yet, you seem to blame only her for every thing that happened! There was nothing guileful, treacherous, manipulative or disgusting about Irene. She was simply a poor orphan, who had to exchange one nasty situation (living with a mean stepmother) for another (marrying a crazy psychopath). And things would get out of control for her, until she finally hooked up with Jolyon and could become free. And if Soames had been as honorable as you say he was, why didn't he just let Irene go when she had an affair? No, he had to possess her and hurt her in the process. And then, he would turn up twelve years later and stalk her all the way to Paris. Yeah, what a great guy he was... 

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In my opinion you're too hard on Irene and not hard enough on Soames.

No, Soames was not regularly a physically abusive man to Irene, and not either physically or emotionally abusive to his second wife. But he did RAPE Irene, and was also psychologically abusive to her in paying no attention whatsoever to her wants or needs -- sexually, emotionally, or psychologically. What he wanted was to own and control her, not to know, understand, and love her.

Even after he violently raped her, Soames was so out of touch and divorced from any normal human feeling towards another human being, let alone the woman he supposedly loved, and she was clearly in shock, he said "Why can't it always be like this?"

Who, then, was it who was dolling out the psychological abuse and emotional torture?

We're only shown what their marriage was like a year or more later. Even still, Irene pathetically and silently goes up the stairs to their bedroom, with Soames following her, to fulfill her "wifely duties, regardless of how clearly repellant it's become to her. We're to understand this has gone on night after night for all of this time, with Soames having no regard or even awareness of how she feels, let alone why.

How is this cold psychological and emotional torture on her part, or withholding? She's come to loathe him for his insensitivity to her, yet continues to try to hold up her end of the bargain anyway, no matter how repellant it's become to her.

Soames raped her once, and terrified her in the carriage on the way home another time by his out of control anger.

No, Irene is not a completely innocent victim, you're correct. And Soames isn't completely bad, either. Both have flaws and redeeming qualities, although it takes longer to see Soames' redeeming qualities, but he does have them.

But I disagree that Irene was guileful, treacherous, manipulative, or disgusting. Guileful, treacherous, and manipulative how? Disgusting, perhaps, in her betrayal of June, and completely unnecessarily publicly humiliating Soames at that dance. It doesn't justify rape, but at the same time I can see no justification for her doing that, but she was not guileful, treacherous or manipulative.

Soames, on the other hand, you excuse, saying he's misunderstood, had a good heart, and was somehow "ruined" by his "love" for and marriage to Irene, which he chose. He did not love her. If he had, he'd have honored his promise to let her go, he'd have been happy to see her laugh and be happy with June, rather than being threatened and angered by it. He would not have controlled her. He would not have raped, stalked, or terrified her -- even many years later.

The only true, healthy love Soames knew and showed was for his father, touchingly shown at his father's deathbed scene. Secondly for his second wife, when despite the fact that she too had betrayed him by having an affair and the man left her, causing her pain, Soames recognized her pain and suggested she go on a shopping trip to help her feel better. His love for his daughter, Fleur, was not healthy, although I do believe he loved her. He helped create a monster in her by indulging her every whim, regardless of how abominably she behaved, and thereby encouraging it. Even when she turned on him when he was trying to help her.

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Examples of Fleur's selfish, remorseless manipulation? Easy peasy....

She knew Jolyon was extremely ill, dying, in fact, so what does she do? She manipulates Jon into agreeing to go to Scotland to marry her right away, before she loses control of him. And she doesn't tell Jon why. For chrissake, his father is dying.

But even before that, she constantly manipulated and lied to get what she wanted. She tricked Val into inviting her to stay, just so she could be near Jon. She didn't tell Jolyon who she was when he found her skulking around Robin Hill. But the worst was when she went to Robin Hill the day they had the service for Jolyon. She went down there for one reason: to mark her territory. There Jon was, devastated over losing his father, crushed, and she was only thinking of herself. By seducing him, she hoped to bind him to her irrevocably.

She didn't seem capable of self-examination. She wanted to believe it was all due to Irene controlling Jon, and that she wasn't culpable for anything. She acted all blameless, but she lied and manipulated, and wouldn't see how that turned him off.

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Thanks for answering for me. I've been locked out of this site for weeks because I couldn't remember the email address I used to register, lol!

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I was thinking as I have continued to watch this that it is rare to see a movie or television production with multi-dimensional characters to this extent, so you are so right that they are a mixture of good, bad, and in between.


Yes, it's rare, and such a treat. You may well have already seen it by now, but the only other work I can think of that does the same is Mad Men. Brilliantly written and acted, and you have to stay on your toes watching it. In fact I'd say it's a given there's no way you could catch all of the subtleties in one viewing. I've seen the entire series about 8 times now, and still find things I missed, even with closed captions turned on and being on my toes. If you haven't yet seen it, you have a treat in store.

regarding Soames and Irene. I am constantly going back and forth about both of them trying to land on a side. As soon as I'm on one side, I'm jolted back to the other.


I didn't go back and forth on them as much as you, although I did experience some of that as well. The first time I began to feel sympathy for Soames was at and after the dance.

I started watching it again last night, and you're right. When she looks out the window and sees Soames on the pier, she does smile a small smile, then turn and smile broadly. Well, broadly for Irene. She was flattered at his attention, and at that point had no ill feelings towards him. Probably thought there was a chance they could work together in a marriage. But in getting to know him at the art exhibit, she realizes they aren't, as she tells her stepmother trying to push her into it, "suited." She was absolutely right about that!

I tried to read the books once and couldn't engage. I suspect the problem was it was an old copy and the typeface used made reading difficult. Haven't tried again.

There's also a 1967 production, which I understand goes into more of the book series than this 2002 version. I tried watching it and couldn't engage because it's quite stagey and the makeup, hair, and costuming screamed 1967. However many say that production is superior to this one, so you might enjoy it.

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It's interesting you mention Mad Men. I watched every single episode of that show, and, yes, very layered characters were present. I think of Betty especially as complex. Of course, everyone would say Don, but he's less so than Betty to me.

So you saw Irene's smile when Soames was on the pier too? For a moment I thought I had imagined it! You analyze that well. I wonder though what was so terribly horrible about Soames at the art exhibit to totally change her mind about him. I remember they disagreed about art I believe. I need to watch it all again. My head is still spinning from it all! :)

Irene was quite young in the early scenes. Maybe 19 or 20 years old? She had incredible discernment at such a young age to know a marriage with Soames would be a mistake which is unusual for the age she was and the time she lived in when marriage was pursued for more practical reasons although not totally for practicality's sake.

Interesting point about the book. I might see if I can get it reasonably for my Kindle to give it a test run.

I cannot imagine that the 1967 version is superior to 2002 in any way. I may just have to see for myself if that's so!

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I'm sorry that you have Mad Men behind you, rather that in front of you, but what a pleasure it is to meet someone who understands and appreciates what a complex character Betty was. So many see her as icy and superficial, and are unable to see past that facade. Personally, I see Betty and Don as being equally complex, but in different ways.

Don had more depth to him, but then the entire show centered around him. He was enigmatic and contradictory. On one hand he had few morals, yet on the other his own personal morals ran quite deep.

Betty, although far more superficial on the surface, had streams running underneath that surface, shown primarily in the first few seasons as neurosis, and so brilliantly by January Jones. I sense this was the role of a lifetime for her. Again, her physical acting, as with Damian Lewis, was superb. The way she spread her fingers when she smoked a cigarette, the look in her eyes when she, shockingly, shot the gun, and the fact that she shot a gun, period. The ever-present tension, even after she remarried, and how it was displayed.

Loved the scene when she and Don briefly get back together at the camp, and the scene the following morning.

You definitely didn't imagine that slight smile when she sees Soames on the pier, followed by a more obvious sign of pleasure when she turns away, and runs her fingers down the keys of the piano. That, to me, is one of the great pleasures of the mini-series, as with Mad Men -- that things are shown and not told.

The conversation between them at the art showing was the kiss of death for Irene, because she is an artistic sort, with great sensitivity towards it and great appreciation and understanding for it, while Soames has none. It's important to her, and she has a deep understanding and appreciation, while Soames only cares if a piece of art is "accomplished" and therefore, to him, valuable. He thinks the place for art is in a museum, or tastefully hung in a hallway, if it meets others' approval and therefore value. She thinks art belongs everywhere, and appreciates the expression of the artist, regardless of if it meets society's approval.

At the end of that scene, he tells her, quite aggressively, he's BOUGHT the painting, and therefore OWNS it, which is how he sees things. She knows that while he's bought and now possesses it, he doesn't understand or appreciate it, and never will. Nor will he ever understand or appreciate her, for who and what she is. On the contrary, he only sees and appreciates her for what he projects onto her: a beautiful, accomplished wife.

I don't blame you for your head spinning. There's so much to this, it really does require multiple viewings. Don't be surprised if you, like I, see things differently each time you view it.

For instance, I very much disliked Irene for going to Bosinney and telling him about Soames raping her. What else, I thought, did she expect such an impetuous, hot-headed man to do but to go after him? How, I thought, could she have known better, and that the likely outcome would be bad, no matter what?

But on later viewings I realized she was very much alone -- partly due to her own actions and betrayal of June -- had been traumatized, and had no one to turn to. She didn't show Bosinney her bruises from Soames from that night, he grabbed onto her arm and she involuntarily flinched, which is why he discovered it. So I came to see Irene differently than I had.

Yes, according to the book, she was much younger than Soames, around 19 or 20. In this series she looks around the same age, to me, but is supposed to be around 8 years younger. She wanted to marry for love, not money. Perhaps her father instilled that in her; that part wasn't shown in the series. But this goes along with her "artistic" temperament, which is aligned with Jolyon's, and not just about practicalities, as her stepmother viewed it. I liked that in this version, even her stepmother's viewpoint was reasonable. Her husband, Irene's father, had only left them 50 pounds a year to live on, so naturally she was very worried that they wouldn't be able to make it. She wasn't just a "bad guy" either; you could understand her position.

I'd be interested in what you think of the book, on your Kindle, which I think it a great media upon which to read it, and especially your impression of the 1967 version. Maybe you'll be able to change my mind on it! I've wished I've been able to see it, as it's so well spoken of by many, and be able to get past the stageyness of it.

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Okay, I don't really have more to add to this discussion. But I can really recommend you to try the books again. There must be a newer edition with a different typeface out there by now! The only sad thing about the books is that we never get to see Irene's point of view. I guess that she was just supposed to be this mysterious woman, whom all the men have to lust for. I believe that both the TV adaptions improved on the books when it comes to describing her character.

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There were newer editions with more readable typefaces at the time, but I'd either bought a used edition, or checked it out of the library.

I've thought of trying it again, but unfortunately over the past several years my focus for reading has gotten so poor due to circumstances that I can only read a few pages of books or magazines at a time. A pity, as a former life-long reader who read at least one book a week. Also, it's difficult to go back to a book that didn't grab you on your first attempt.

It is curious that the books don't describe Irene's POV, since she's so much a central character.

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I've thought of trying it again, but unfortunately over the past several years my focus for reading has gotten so poor due to circumstances that I can only read a few pages of books or magazines at a time. A pity, as a former life-long reader who read at least one book a week. Also, it's difficult to go back to a book that didn't grab you on your first attempt.

Oh, I can so relate to not having enough time to read all those books you want to read. I think you really should try "The Forsyte Saga" again though, as you like the TV series.

It is curious that the books don't describe Irene's POV, since she's so much a central character.

It is indeed curious. But it seems like Irene is based on Galsworthy's wife Ada, so I guess that he maybe simply didn't want to expose the character too much.

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I wish it were only a matter of not having time to read, but it's that over the past few years I've developed ADD-like symptoms, where I can't focus well enough to read more than a few pages at a time, and finishing a book is impossible :(

Can't tell you how much I miss curling up with a good book before bedtime, or on any downtime I have. Reading has always been one of the great pleasures of my life. I'm hoping to be able to be free of this, and be able to really read again. When that happens, I will give The Forsyte Saga another try. It should be easier because, as you say, I so much love this mini-series. Even if the books differ from it in ways, it seems I'd enjoy reading them.

Maybe you're right, that is why Galsworthy kept Irene ambiguous -- being protective of her and respecting her privacy, while still drawing upon her life as inspiration.

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I laughed out loud, even though it was sad, when Irene has just agreed to marry Soames, he promises she can "be free" if she's not happy, they kiss, and then they both think "Um, no."

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This is the only limited series I can think of that's actually therapeutic. So many scenes remind you of your own idiotic decisions or promises made when young--probably because there are so many characters who are idiotic in such different ways. The only non-idiot is June. The actress who played her had a thankless task, because the character's too perfect (at least in the 2002 version).

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June was not perfect. She was too possessive about Bossiney, which is what pushed him to Irene, and she also refused to give Fleur a chance.

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I think they played it that way to show that Irene really gave Soames a chance. She got to know him slightly before she decided he was completely wrong for her.

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I think they played it that way to show that Irene really gave Soames a chance. She got to know him slightly before she decided he was completely wrong for her.


Yes, exactly.

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If you do a mash-up of Nyree Dawn Porter and Gina McKee (or read the novel ), you get the impression that Irene was naive and hopeful, as all extremely vulnerable people are. No one enters a situation as serious as marriage thinking the worst; that's why many if not most people think they'll ultimately "change" their spouses.

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I tried watching the original with Nyree Dawn Porter, and reading the novel, but couldn't make my way through either one. I don't see Gina McKee's Irene as being particularly either naive or hopeful, but I do think she thought she and Soames had a chance of a tolerably successful marriage, and perhaps even eventually love of a sort, but not passionate love on her part.

But her gut told her otherwise, hence asking him to promise to let her go if the marriage wasn't successful. Had she not been in such a desperate situation, she wouldn't have ignored that feeling and agreed to marry him.

that's why many if not most people think they'll ultimately "change" their spouses.


That's for sure!

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I tried watching the original with Nyree Dawn Porter, and reading the novel, but couldn't make my way through either one.


I don't blame you. The 1970's was a dark dark time  when television, music, movie producers seemed to think that long-and-boring was just fine. And I suppose because of the amount of drug-taking at the time among the literati, it was. I gave up on the original Masterpiece Theatre version but watched enough to find Nyree Dawn Porter much more than a British Goldie Hawn with fake eyelashes and a good platinum dye-job. Her Irene is much more frank than Gina McKee's, who seems incapable of ever speaking above a whisper.

I do think she thought she and Soames had a chance of a tolerably successful marriage, and perhaps even eventually love of a sort, but not passionate love on her part.


I think the whole issue of her not only being poor and female, but an artist without sufficient "society" acquaintances to make her living via her art, doomed her in the exact way such a condition always doomed (and perhaps still does doom) women in her very unenviable situation. Irene was remote because she felt more deeply than other women. Annette is, to me, possibly the most fascinating female character of *this* Forsyte Saga, specifically because she too has sensibilities Soames always ignores. Annette like Irene suffers his indignities for a much longer time than Irene, but, unlike with Irene, the viewer actually gets to see Annette trying to rationalize and bear up with his viciousness and (considering the childbirth scene) sadism.

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I don't blame you. The 1970's was a dark dark time when television, music, movie producers seemed to think that long-and-boring was just fine. And I suppose because of the amount of drug-taking at the time among the literati, it was.


I agree. Even though that version was made in 1967, the same applies. I had trouble getting past the hair, makeup, and costuming, too, which was nothing at all resembling the period it was set in.

I gave up on the original Masterpiece Theatre version but watched enough to find Nyree Dawn Porter much more than a British Goldie Hawn with fake eyelashes and a good platinum dye-job. Her Irene is much more frank than Gina McKee's, who seems incapable of ever speaking above a whisper.


I wondered if you'd managed to wade through it. Maybe I should try watching the second episode, just so I can see Porter's Irene. So you liked her in it, I gather? True, McKee's voice was always unnaturally soft.

I think the whole issue of her not only being poor and female, but an artist without sufficient "society" acquaintances to make her living via her art, doomed her in the exact way such a condition always doomed (and perhaps still does doom) women in her very unenviable situation.


Yes, she was in the same position as Young Jolyon's second wife. If she hadn't married Soames, she'd have had to become a governess. It was basically the only option for an impoverished, genteel woman at that time.

Annette is, to me, possibly the most fascinating female character of *this* Forsyte Saga, specifically because she too has sensibilities Soames always ignores. Annette like Irene suffers his indignities for a much longer time than Irene, but, unlike with Irene, the viewer actually gets to see Annette trying to rationalize and bear up with his viciousness and (considering the childbirth scene) sadism.


Annette was a very good character. I know we see Soames differently in some regards, but when was he vicious with her, in your opinion?

I think he and Annette had a decent enough marriage, primarily because he wasn't obsessed with her, and their marriage was a mutual business-like agreement. The only actual problem I could see was Soames undercut her with Fleur, spoiling her rotten.

The first few times I saw it, I thought the same way about the childbirth scene. I thought he'd thrown Annette to the wolves making that decision. But later, watching it more closely, I've changed my mind.

Soames was given a horrible choice: save his wife for certain, but their baby dies and she can never have children (which she wanted); or, take a chance and both live. If you watch Soames in that scene, he is truly agonizing over having to make such a terrible choice, and put it off as long as he could. He wasn't being sadistic, he was very upset having to listen to Annette's agony, being helpless to do anything about the fact that something had gone terribly wrong with the birth.

He stayed at the house as long as he could, and would have stayed there except at the same time as this was going on, his father was dying.

And you can't forget that Annette cheated on him, and people knew about it. This was the second time he had a wife who cheated on him. It was much worse with Irene, because she and Phil made it so public. That would be very painful and humiliating for anyone, but even worse for a man back then, even more so for someone as concerned with the family name and image as Soames.

Even so, when Profond dumped Annette, he saw how much it hurt her and, surprisingly, offered her a shopping trip, with he and Fleur, to help her feel better. She, knowing what he was doing, took his hand for a moment and thanked him. I thought that was a clear sign that some real of love had formed between them. Not in love, but genuine caring.

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@catbooks June 6 response:

1) Yes, the original series was made in 1967 but became known here in the U.S. either in the actual 70's or very close to. I recall that era acutely well as a child; I acutely hated every day of it from the release of the Beatles' Magical Mystery Tour until Gilbert O'Sullivan and Roberta Flack hit #1 in 1972. Culturally in the U.S. the late 60's and early 70's are indistinguishable. I'd argue that the later and earlier years of any two decades are indistinguishable. N.D. Porter's Carnaby Street-via-flower-power-ruffles Irene is why I couldn't keep watching. However, because of the leisure with which the story unfolds, the complexity of her meeting Soames and Soames courting her is much uglier. In 2002, the role her stepmother's lover plays in forcing the relationship is vivid but not nearly as brutal. There is a scene of Soames and Irene on kinda sorta a Dark Shadows' Barnabas-Josette Cliff of Doom, where I swear I thought Soames might send Irene hurtling over.

More to the point: Nyree Dawn Porter's face is not conventionally beautiful. She has a strong jaw and somewhat asexual look, if one looks past the false eyelashes and eyeliner.

2) Soames and Annette... Jesus, is that relationship realistic and tragic. I do realize the stakes involved in both Soames and Annette's loss of the child. I know that almost anyone would forgive Soames for making the decision he made. But the brutality of that scene is so brutal, it's kind of like when you accidentally get ill from an innocuous or even well-liked candy. The recollection thereafter never leaves you.

Annette was an opportunist; she admits this. It seems that all French people in all British film or literature are "credited" with some sort of personality disorder by virtue of not being British. But we take our fiction as we find it, and, yes, Annette is an opportunist.

She does not count on the day arriving when her husband will diminish her in her own daughter's eyes. That scene with young Fleur about the dress-changing was, to me, nearly as awful as the childbirth scene--and I mean this. To set a mother's will at naught in favor of a minor's said more loudly than the childbirth scene how much an object Annette had been and always would be to Soames.

I know that you like Soames, and I don't. For the record, I adore Damian Lewis and for the life of me can't account for the ascendancy of someone like Benedict Cumberbatch over him in the sex appeal department; Cumberbatch can't hold a candle to Lewis in terms of--you name it. I always recur to the Wilkie Collins' Woman in White's Count Fosco: "It's foolish to believe that good men are capable of evil acts and not think that evil men are capable of doing good." That's a paraphrase, but it sums up Soames perfectly. There are tons of such characters throughout literary history--Duncan (Stephen Waddington) from The Last of the Mohicans being the same vainglorious snob. Uriah Heep to a certain extent is the same.

Soames epitomizes a snob so spiritually prideful as to realize the dangers of appearing a snob, prideful enough to want to look humble when the risk of being seen for what he is is in danger of "breaking through." By perpetually maintaining the facade of humility, sadists can prolong their staying power.

He is vulnerable to Fleur only because Fleur is, to a very large extent, his creation. If there would be any last-gasp redemption of his sick sick soul, he would owe it to his vulnerability to her.

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Culturally in the U.S. the late 60's and early 70's are indistinguishable. I'd argue that the later and earlier years of any two decades are indistinguishable.


Agreed, which is why I said what I did. People tend to want to think things greatly change when a decade changes, but they don't; in reality it's as subtle as one year from another in any decade.

N.D. Porter's Carnaby Street-via-flower-power-ruffles Irene is why I couldn't keep watching.


My misunderstanding, then. I like Goldie Hawn. I did find a few YouTube videos still remaining -- most have been deleted now -- so I could at least get some sense of Porter's portrayal of Irene. She is very different from McKey's Irene; more "normal," if you will.

2) Soames and Annette... Jesus, is that relationship realistic and tragic. I do realize the stakes involved in both Soames and Annette's loss of the child. I know that almost anyone would forgive Soames for making the decision he made. But the brutality of that scene is so brutal, it's kind of like when you accidentally get ill from an innocuous or even well-liked candy. The recollection thereafter never leaves you.

Yes, I imagine there are 21st century versions of marriage (and 20th) to Soames and Annettes's marriage. It was not a marriage out of love, or lust, but out of practicality. It happens now as well, but not as often as it did then.

The childbirth scene was brutal, I agree, but that was due to the times. Neither Annette, Soames, nor the doctor could do anything about it, except make an awful choice and hope for the best. I can understand why it'd stay with you. It has me as well.

Annette was an opportunist; she admits this. It seems that all French people in all British film or literature are "credited" with some sort of personality disorder by virtue of not being British.


I wouldn't necessarily call Annette an opportunist, but I do think she was pragmatic, and she'd been raised to be that way. In her world, marriage was essentially a business proposition and one's mate wasn't chosen as a result of love. To her, as she expressed to Fleur later on, marriage was for practical reasons, and love was separate. I do agree that often French characters in British novels (and/or period productions) are portrayed this way.

She does not count on the day arriving when her husband will diminish her in her own daughter's eyes. That scene with young Fleur about the dress-changing was, to me, nearly as awful as the childbirth scene--and I mean this. To set a mother's will at naught in favor of a minor's said more loudly than the childbirth scene how much an object Annette had been and always would be to Soames.


If she didn't see that coming, then she was a fool, and I do not see Annette as a fool by any means. Soames fell for Fleur like a ton of bricks, right after her birth, even though she wasn't a son, which is what he so wanted, and had to have, initially, been disappointed she was "only" a girl.

Yes, that was the scene I had in mind, very young Fleur, who wanted to wear the white dress, and Soames giving way to her, over her Annette (who was right). However I can't see it the way you do; the childbirth scene was literally a matter of life and death, while the dress scene was merely a (probably) small daily matter, representative of what had undoubtedly gone on before, and would go on afterwards.

I think it has much less to do with Annette, and any objectification of her, than it does to buy -- and keep -- Fleur's love. Not that she was capable of love, but that was his intent. And one can ever buy love, but he didn't realize that, because he thought he could. He made the same mistake with Irene, although not Annette. I do think a good part of his obsessive and destructive love for Fleur is because she is his daughter -- half, at least, his creation.

I know that you like Soames


I don't know where you're gotten that idea. I've never said I liked Soames, and don't see how anyone could, overall. But, I do not think he's evil, either. I don't believe in evil, unless we're talking about sociopaths or psychopaths (of which Soames is neither), and even then I think sociopath or psychopath are the correct words, not evil. Clearly Soames has something wrong with him, and makes terrible, self-destructive choices; I've always maintained this.

Uriah Heep to a certain extent is the same.


 There is something Uriah Heepish about Soames.

For the record, I adore Damian Lewis and for the life of me can't account for the ascendancy of someone like Benedict Cumberbatch over him in the sex appeal department; Cumberbatch can't hold a candle to Lewis in terms of--you name it.


Yes, I know that you too are a Damian Lewis fan. I've only seen a couple of episodes of Sherlock, and I thought Cumberbatch was good in it, but it (the show and his character) didn't knock my socks off or anything. He's a good actor, but IMO, nothing as good as Lewis. I'd put Lewis up there with Spencer Tracy, maybe even better because as good as Tracy was, he more or less played himself, and I don't think Lewis does. (Gawd, I hope not.)

Speaking of Lewis, I know you've praised him in Band of Brothers, but I can't find that anywhere to watch it. For me, his Soames and Brody were pretty much neck-and-neck as far as brilliant performances. I enjoyed Life well enough, but the writing was light fare. I tried Billions and had a hard time making it through the first episode. I tried the second, only because a friend urged me to, but found it very tedious and barely made it to the end. IMO, Lewis needs to be cast in a role he can get his teeth into, otherwise he's wasted. Is there anything else you've seen him in, other than Band of Brothers, you recommend?

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@catbookss--

Will write more later. No, 'twas not I who praised Band of Brothers, which I tried to watch on HBO but could not get into (the first, very long, episode had barely any Lewis at all).

Run, don't walk, to stream or buy on Ebay "Keane." It is the role that convinced Alex Gansa and Howard Gordon to cast him as Brody. It is heartbreaking, frightening, and a better portrait of mental illness combined with poverty will never be seen on any screen anywhere.

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She is very different from McKey's Irene; more "normal," if you will.


I just wanted to add something about this very important point you make. You and I differ in substantive areas regarding good and evil, so it's pointless to squabble over such things.

However, Gina McKee's wan, chronically depressed-to-the-point-of-slacker-like-sullenness, attitude needs to be discussed. I think I'm going to find and watch all the way through the original Forsyte Saga, because Nyree Dawn Porter created an Irene who (at least in the beginning) is believably alluring, so that her Soames (apologies for forgetting the actor's name) seems much less of a predator. For Damian Lewis' Soames to seem a predator is natural, when you consider how truly unattractive (I mean personally, not physically) Irene is.

In fact, it's Irene's lifelong despondency that makes her affair with Bosinney so repulsive. It's as if she decides, oh, okay, I think I'll drop the maiden-in-deep-dudgeon act now. And sure, the fictional character does come to life with Bosinney. It's Gina McKee's (and the director's!) insistence on eternal moodiness that makes even Irene's eventual marriage to Jolyon seem such a "get-back" at Soames.

Perhaps this is how the director wanted Irene to appear. Perhaps Gina McKee was cast specifically because of her remote demeanor--not the robust, vivacious Irene of the 60's version.

In this case, a viewer has to ask if a director has the prerogative to co-opt another person's work (Galsworthy's) and make it her/his own. Someone did this with the late 90's version of Mansfield Park. Jane Austen's novel, while alluding, just as Jane Eyre does, to slavery and all the barbarity that went along with it, chose--for whatever Austen's (or Bronte's) reasons might have been--not to concentrate on slavery. So the question should be not if Soames was good, and Irene bad, or vice versa, but whether any director has the right to inject herself into a work someone else wrote (common 90's pretentiousness and arrogance), rather than to write her own screenplay/novel about a feuding turn-of-the-century dynasty, and go from there.

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