Film lesson: Don't cheat on your wife/husband
And if you do, don't take it in the butt (whether you're male or female), as this is the easiest way to catch HIV.
Much harder to catch it from standard intercourse, or as a giver.
Please ignore everything this poster just said. The 'giver' or standard intercourse can result in HIV just the same as anal or being a 'receiver'.
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It is hard not to sound condescending when you are explaining things to an idiot!