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Usually Don't Cry In Films.


I was wondering if there is anybody else out there who is NOT NORMALLY MOVED by films, who have made an exception for this one. Personally I have never cried in a movie, that is until I saw this one. I was literally shaking because I was crying so hard. Any similar experiences?

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I was crying so hard I could hardly breath by the time the movie finished. Started about 20 minutes before the end of the film. Really got going when the professor was reading her the children's book. Completely lost it! What an amazing film.

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I cried so hard I couldn't see. Sobbing and gasping and drippy tears. I thought it was an incredible movie, but I don't think I can ever see it again. The line that got me the most was when the professor told her "and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."

I'm reading these posts because I said those same words today to my brother as he died. I'm sending out e-mails to my friends and decided to go look up the movie details again while I was on the computer.

I was so thankful that this wasn't my brother's experience. He got pneumonia that turned into ARDS, and he just couldn't beat it. But the staff at the hospital were wonderful, so caring and kind. And he was surrounded by friends and family when he left us. And he knew how much we loved him.

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Actually... I do cry at films, if they move me enough.

If I know the film, and I know I'm gonna cry... I will watch it alone and "enjoy" the experience to it's fullest!
I'll actually start even before, it get's to the sad parts... cos I know what's comming!!

"Wit" was Wonderful, and I cried a lot! (Emma Thompson at her Very Best!)

BTW: I'm a GUY, so I'm "not supposed-to CRY!" (???)
Well, I don't cry at Weddings... but I do at Funerals... and certain Movies, and TV dramas. (They've got to be really good one's though!)

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dude after i saw this movie i was depressed for like 3 days!

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I consider myself a rather heartless wretch, especially when it comes to emotional outbursts.

However, I was just like you. I was crying so hard that I was shaking. By the end, I was such a blubbery wet mess that I could not see a thing. God, it was horrible. I was pretty much entirely depressed for 24 hours after watching this film.

Yet, the emotional catharsis was quite liberating at the same time.

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Prior to watching this film recently, I don't think I've cried, as an adult, during a movie (In high school, I cried during _Fatal Attraction_ when the bunny got boiled, but I chalk that up to teenage girl hormones and no sleep). Most films, even if they are very moving, I just sort of watch solemnly, and I can discuss them rationally afterwards. If I am tempted to shed a tear, it is usually later, when I am alone... I have a "thing" about crying/losing control in front of others. And actually, when I watched this film a few years ago on HBO, I didn't cry. I thought it made a powerful statement, but no tears.

Well, I watched it again last Monday in a class I'm taking. I tried to keep it together but just lost it. Red face, snot dripping out of my nose, the whole thing. Very "undignified."

I think that this film is particularly difficult for people who think. Obviously the subject matter is moving, but the plight of a person who normally relies on intelligence, reason, and hard study to get ahead--the cerebral, the intellect--facing something so organic and earthy and devastating is just Tragic (capital T intended). All of the tools she has equipped herself with to take on the challenges of her life are completely ineffective in the face of this disease. Those of us who see ourselves mirrored in her situation are, understandably, shaken.

What I take away from it is not only that life is full of unexpected turns, but that the life you live needs to be FULL. Pursuit of excellence in the abstract and the ideal is fine, especially if it's your passion. However, if you choose to live solely in that world and never take the time to connect with the organic, "real" world, you are liable to be unprepared for when the real world impacts yours.

A grim reminder for academics, but an important one.

-juni

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After watching this film my eyes were all red and puffy, that has never happened to me before. I can honestly say that I have never been so moved or touched by any other film. I'll problably carry this film with me forever.

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"In high school, I cried during _Fatal Attraction_ when the bunny got boiled"

hahahahaha <3

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me too.

I was driven to cry a lot at the end of the film.
Maybe it was the combination of great acting and great poetry interwoven with each other.

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Yes me absaloutley!

I rarely am moved by a film anough to cry (Ok so I did cry at Titanic but I was 10 ok!) This film was truly chilling and at times mortifying. In both senses of the word.

I am in awe of Emma Thomsons acting ability. I remember sitting there thinking "I cannot believe that this is an actress and not a woman really going through this utter trauma". I assumed that it had been written from an actual sufferers diary. When I found out that it was originally a play I couldn't believe it.

It was both horrifing and magnificent.

I have never cried so much at a film.

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I have cried during films on occasion, but then it's only been a stray tear or two. I was sobbing during this movie.

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The only other film I remember I was crying at was The Passion of Christ by Mel Gibson, and it wasn't because I'm a right wing ;).

The same, the reading a children's story scene is meant to crack those as rough as Emma Thompson's character.

Cried myslef out, I wouldn't want to end up like her. Not sick, but so snobbish, cold, restrained, shy and at the end alone.
I do not doubt that I will be dead ;).

What I felt was touching and so sad was not only the fact that she was dying alone in the hospital, but that her professor came over because she happened to be in town visiting her grandchild.

She had a family, personal life.

Thomson seemed to have the intellect only and internal life, secluded one obviously.

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