uncontrollable sobbing


ok. i never thought a movie would make me cry like that. this movie has to be seen.

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I couldn't agree more.
Yesterday I was bored so a went to a movie store close to school. Just to see if there was an interresting movie. Thought of Ying xiong, cause its one of my favourite movies. But I didn't find it. Instead I saw this one, Wo de fu qin mu qin, and I noticed that it was by the same director as Ying xiong's- Zhang Yimou. Also noticed that it had won a price at the Berlin film festival. And, in addition to all this, my favourite actress Ziyi Zhang. Wow!, I thought, and rented it immediately.

And now I've seen it. I have never ever cried because of a movie, but with this one I cried and sobbed at least 10 times. I have NEVER EVER seen a more beautiful movie. Never. It touches my heart and I hope it'll stay there forever. Så beautiful, so sad, so..... Winderful!

You really should see it. Still got tears in my eyes, and the movie ended 20 minutes ago!

See it, and don't hold your tears in! Let yourself we swept away by the beauty of this masterpiece!


EDIT: Argh! Sorry, its a little bit confusing when english isn't your primary language...

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You couldn't agree less? It seems like you agree wholeheartedly. The original poster cried a lot. You cried a lot. You both think it's a tear-jerking movie.

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I couldn't help it either but sob uncontrollably! (especially during the parts when she was continually waiting)
Beautiful film...need to see it again

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What is is that makes you cry at those scenes? Why should it be so strange that a person works hard for a person they love? It says something for our society today when such endurance is seen as so bazzar.

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I hardly ever cry in movies, the last I remember is AI when the little boy tells his mom he loves her.

Saw this one yesterday and the images of the young girl waiting for her beloved in chilling cold weather, chasing after him to give him food she so lovingly cooked for him, and wanting to walk to the city, a place she's never been to, to look for him just made me cry.

This was truly a gem of a movie. Rarely do I rate a movie 10/10 and this movie definitely deserved it for how innocent love was beautifully shown on screen.

Beautiful movie.

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People if you liked this movie, please see My Mother the Mermaid.
You will feel a lot of sentiments, perhaps more then with this one.
Both movies are beautiful, but I think My Mother the Mermaid it's better, not BETTER, but better..
You have to see to believe me..



There is a thin line between Love and Hate.

Ai wa kanari itai.

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Gee, just thinking about the movie, which I saw yesterday, makes tears come to my eyes.

Broke down completely during the funeral procession, especially when many of the old pupils had joined and people run towards the coffin to get their chance to carry it

And how very poignant, "I'll never see him again", was

And the determined girl waiting/risking her life in the snow landscape.

And breaking the bowl and breaking down after running cross-country after the cart with the teacher in it.

And coming full circle with the son teaching for a day and his mother going to join others outside the school as she/they did for the first time all those years ago.

More tears (of joy) on other occasions, for instance when the two young lovers actually meet for the first time, after the girl had zig-zagged through the country side to, by chance, come across the teacher. That scene - amazingly cut BTW, and ending with the girl "shuffling" off, of course forgetting her basket - made me shout out aloud.

There were many moving moments. The significance of the red coat comes to mind and seeing the young girl weaving after we had seen the widow "go to work" on the loom < sigh >

What a wonderful, powerful movie that makes one reflect so much.

P.S. Interesting to see how many people in the reviews here confess to blubbing

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NO: Di says to her son, "YOU will never see your father again."

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Never in my life has a movie hit me so emotionally. I was sobbing like a baby the whole time... it's incredible. Nothing has ever done that to me before.

I cry during other movies, of course, if someone dies or whatever... but never with the emotion experienced here.

Frankly, until I seen The Road home I didn't think it was even possible to acheive that level of emotion in a film... it's mind boggling.



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No movie had ever made me cry.
No movie could. Impossible.



Then I saw The Road Home.


Now I'm a teary-eyed little girly-man.

I have no shame. This is in my personal 5 best movies of all time.






don't look at me, i'm the bus-stop boxer - E

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SAME HERE!!!!

Luckily my East Asia teacher likes to have us watch movies, and this was one of them, and luckily I was sitting in the back of the room (lol!).

I got so mad at all the other people in the class, they all said "That was boring, nothing happened!" I was so amazed that everyone else didn't get swept around uncontrollably by this movie!

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Not: beni a&#287;latabilen di&#287;er baz&#305; filmler
-bu film (the road home)
-Jane Eyre (1996)
-the house of the spirits

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Yes it's a beautiful movie. One of the few that made me cry from beginning to end. The story is so simple and sweet.

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this movie proves that you don't need an epic story and high budget cinemetograpy and effects to produce a masterpiece..its presentation perfectly fits its story.. in short, i was amazed by this film..

and yes, i too was reduced to a teary eyed girly-man... and i am not ashamed of this... actually i would think something was wrong with someone who wasn't touched by this film..

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Ok, I confess...

Another teary eyed girly man is owning up to crying during this film. And with my rock hard image too!

I was weeping in the aisles when I saw this OUTSTANDING MOVIE. Only this and the end of Cinema Paradiso have managed to make my eyes leak.



Pay? I'd sooner kill you!
-Drunken Master

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Wow. How can you NOT say this was an epic story? Lord of the Rings was an epic story, but although it spreads across all of Middle Earth (remember that China is known as "The Middle Kingdom?) It still has none of the "epic" in it. Epic is the scale ot time in this movie. It takes place over forty years and 3 generations. It also shows the land around the village in such sweeping angles and camera shots that you see the true beauty and epicness of that landscape, which is truly another character in the movie. It shows people following traditions that have lasted for thousands of years in China. This movie is truly epic. I understand what you were saying in your post though. But I just needed to point out the truly epic nature of this movie. I enjoyed it every bit as much as a Hollywood megabux thriller giant explosion-filled, 90% CG movie.

The sheer power of the love shown in this movie is what is making you weep. Such a weight of love cannot rest upon your soul without squeezing tears out of you. The love the mother shows for her child, embodied in the repaired bowl, is so poignant. The love shining in young Zi's eyes at seeing her teacher leading students, skipping, down a road he doesn't even know she observes is beautiful. The delight and love beaming from her as she listens to "his beautiful voice" outside the school is humbling. The love that the whole village shows for both the teacher and Di in both times, (1950's and 2000) is befuddling. Would any small town in America be able to match that love and support? I say never... a country with a 46% divorce rate just couldn't fathom the love and work needed for that kind of support.

This movie is a love story, plain and simple, with no fancy special effects or computer generated wizardry. And I think that anyoone watching it would agree that it fulfills its purpose in portraying the love that is the main theme of this movie. So go ahead and cry! If you can't cry for the characters loves and despairs, then cry for a world in which loves like those shone here are an endangered species. Cry for the fact that the movie has to end. Cry because of the beautiful scenery (including the lead actress!). If you don't cry at this movies, you may fit the definition of sociopath! :)

Enjoy, and curse the "fin"

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Yes! All of that!

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I cried, than cried some more, than got hungry and ate some potato chips, than I cried again.

Another gem from Yimou. I loved how he used the children's voices to recall memories!

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i finally ordered this movie today. i'm excited beyond belief...i really hope it's as good as everyone says it is.

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I happened across this film a few months ago and as the film slowly developed so did a lump in my throat which finally ended in tears as the old woman sat outside the classroom listening to her son speak, interspersed with flashbacks.

I have never seen a movie so utterly and accurately portray real love on screen as The Road Home. The fact that movies like Titanic make hundreds of millions of dollars out of a two-day romance angers me! This film should be compulsory viewing for anyone looking at spending the rest of their life with another person.

Yes, I am another 'girly man' exposed by the genius and heart of this movie.

Oh, and my wife caught me crying, too. Embarassing but lotsa brownie points...

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I'm afraid that I too must add my name to the rapidly growing list of girly men this thread has drawn out from behind their boxes of tissues.

I only bought this movie because I think Zhang Ziyi is gorgeous and when I started watching it I thought "Oh dear, I've wasted my money." This only lasted about 10 minutes and now I really think I've stumbled across something rather special.

I don't usually watch films like this. I'm more of a "so how high's the body count" kinda film lover. But this film......

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Saw this little gem of a movie about two years ago and fell in love with it. I've kept a place in my heart for it ever since. I finished watching it again not 20 minutes ago and I loved it even more the second time. And yes, I wept too. The scene where Di and the teacher meet for the first time (on the road) gets me every time.

And the Titanic posters on the wall of the mother's (present day) house were a nice touch :-)

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