Appropriate(Nudity) ?


I have a 14 year old son and i was wondering if this film was appropriate for him. he has seen plenty violence and language, but I was curious about the scene of sexuality. Is it explicit? Does it have any nudity? Please answer my question related to the SCENE OF SEXUALITY AND POSSIBLE NUDITY. Thank You.

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Nope, this film is great and does not contain any nudity or sexually explicit scenes.

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If you want to know about the sex/violence/language content of movies, check out kids-in-mind.com. It tells you exactly what's in every movie - not just kids movies. It details every potential objectionable scene or comment. It's a great resource.

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The only nudity is at some distance when the two leads leap off a bluff into a lake for some romantic skinny-dipping.

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They aren't skinny-dipping, as they are in their under garments.

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My question is: why would you be more concerned about your 14 year old son watching scenes with sexuality and nudity over scenes with violence and "language"?

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My question is: wtf is with people judging the parenting of others? The OP asked a simple question. Mind your own *beep* business about the OP's parenting decisions.

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Who's judging anyone's parenting? It was a valid question. The fact that someone is more concerned about letting their child see nudity onscreen than watching people being blown away by gunfire or other forms of violence, is quite curious.

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I completely agree, but, in countries like USA their completely crazy on these things.
Violense is no problem, but foul language is bad, and nudity is just taboo, except from girls wearing almost nothing at all. Thats ok.

Who figures?

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Maybe because like a great actor I once knew said, "You can ACT things like violence... I can explain to my kid that I didn't REALLY shoot the guy. "He is acting the same way that you do in cops and robbers games" but I can't explain being naked. Kid has eyes don't he? If you're naked, you're naked, it ain't acting. I couldn't explain to him taking my clothes off with a woman who's not their mother. Hollywood likes to say that stuff's just acting. It ain't. People get aroused, things happen. It's too personal." -

Also, as my acting coach once said, "Acting is about that, acting... besides perhaps a halocaust scene, there is really VERY little reason that ANYONE should be nude in a film/movie"

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one thing I have noticed that in Jim's film you will never find odd scenes and thats for sure

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He is Jesus after all

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Because of James's Catholic upbringing, he refuses to appear nude in love scenes. It's in his contract, which I think is wonderful, because you don't always need a lot of skin to get the point across.

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I really like how James Caviezel refuses to do nudity as a result of his Catholic upbringing. That is incredibly rare and admirable. I do remember hearing that Jennifer Lopez wanted to "show more" in that scene, but James said he didn't want to do it, partly because of his faith, but also because of his loyalty to his wife. I don't know if this is true or not--it could have been a rumor--but I do remember reading about that.

Then there are other actors who don't think there's anything wrong with it. Anne Hathaway, for instance, has been quoted saying "It's just a job. Some people refuse to do it on moral grounds, but I think that's a shoddy argument." I don't agree, but she's entitled to her opinion, I guess.

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I have also read that Jim Caviezel refuses to do nude love scenes with anyone. It is out of respect to his wife and his faith. What a man! There should be more like him. I love his attitude. However, if I were married to him, it would bother me that he is kissing all those beautiful women. They must have an amazing marriage.

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Another thing you usually don't find in his movies - actual acting.

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when i decide if a show is appropriate for my children, I don't look at it in terms of "does it have the appropriate lack of 'bad' things such as language, nudity, violence." I look at the overall theme, messege, ect. (the sum is worth more than it's parts!)

For example, a movie w/ violent scenes is not the same as a movie that glorifies violence. what if a movie shows no sex scenes and uses no bad words and euphamisms about sex BUT has an overall negative, disgusting, overly casual or disrespectful attitde about sex (the movie itself, not individual characters)?

then again, what if the movie is beauful and tasteful but simply deals w/ issues that are way over the child's head, or emotionaly overwealming?

MOST important to me is what will my child carry away from this movie. (it could be attitudes or it could be repeatedly saying an innapropriate phrase or it could be nothing at all)

Only YOU know your child, what you allow and what you're child can handle. However, I think a flash of boob or two people rolling around under a blanket or whatever is more than redeamable IF THE MOVIE ITSELF IS WORTHWHILE AND APRROPRIATE. You can always have discussions about individual things that you find objectionable with your child.

PS. Unless you are Omish (and even then) your 14 year old boy is a lot less sheltered than you think.

Overall Advice: Watch it for yourself first. Then decide.

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I don't understand what the 'fear' of nudity and sex in films is...

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It's probobly too late but I'm still going to comment. I am 13(going on 14 in 2 months) and I just finished watching it. For me, swearing is the least my parents are concerened for because I hear it around me all the time and she trusts that I won't use the word myself. As for violence, I can't imagine a 14 year old that has seen worse than that. There is just one scene where there are a few bloody cuts on peoples faces. As for sex, there is a scene, but it's not really graphic, no nudity(atleast, we don't see it) , they're just hugging eachother and carressing (what could be consider as sexual) and kissing. But there are alot of "f words in it.

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But there are alot of "f words in it.


And Larry Pogue (Sisto) utters the ugly "c" word to Lopez's character. I believe that's probably why it was given an R rating.

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Lol. Now I feel bad for my mother letting me watching Sex and the city when i was a teen. I think you shouldn't worry about your boy but do know if he WANTS to see nudity and sex he'll sure as hell find it.

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If you have questions about it, then you should probably watch it before you decide whether or not your kid watches it. That would probably be better than asking from the advice of strangers online.

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Funny how he saw enough violence and languages, but when nudity comes into play you are being "protective"
It's just a body, with this kind of attitude, no wonder people are frustrated about the most natural thing in the world.
(and no I'm not a nudist)

Exodus 35:2 Whoever does any work on Sabbath must be put to death. Go God!

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"SCENE OF SEXUALITY AND POSSIBLE NUDITY"

yeah, I wish...

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