Bit of an "update"
This info is actually 15 years old so I hesitate to call it an update. However, for anyone who has just become familiar with the film, this article http://www.sfgate.com/movies/article/Sex-Charges-Devastate-Gay-Dad-Father-2800972.php has info about the boy's relationship with Stephen a year after the film came out.
I thought it was great that I had more patience. Turns out... I just don't give a sh!t