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Most of the story is true. . .


I teach 6th grade. Last year my students and I found an email address for Piper Dellums. She actually gave a telephone Q & A with my class. We found out that the young South African was actually named Carrie and was much older than portrayed in the movie. She was 17 close to 18 years old. Also Piper's brothers are actually older than she is. Furthermore, one of the brothers actually had a romance with Carrie. Many truths associated with this story were not told due to their incriminating nature or stretched so that the story was more family friendly. Carrie's father was not a policeman but actually a high political offical in South Africa and basically disowned her because when she returned to her country, she became an active voice for the elimination of apartheid. Sadly, Carrie was indeed killed and her life was essentially erased from existance. The Dellums family tried to found her before all of this occurred but were unable to do so.

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I think it's wonderful that you taught and discussed this particular story with your class. It is a great example of how racial prejudice can blind individuals until they experience the actual truth or reality of what “different” people actually are about.

You mentioned that Piper admitted Carrie was deceased, but is the Dellums family certain of this fact, or is this speculation? The reason I ask is because Carrie initially corresponded with them after her return to South Africa, and then all contact stopped, which is why the family suspected something bad had happened to her. However, I recall reading on another site that Carrie dropped her anti-apartheid campaign due to “pressure”, and stopped communication with the Dellumses, whether from fear, shame, or actual change of heart. I am curious as to what the story is true. Given the circumstances of the time, it is not improbable to believe she was imprisoned or killed for her beliefs, but it is also interesting to know if the other version is actually true. What a mystery…


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Aww you're so lucky! (I mean, the phone call and talking with Piper)

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Wow that was good of Piper to have talk to you and your class and its sad about about Carrie. Died so young...

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Yes, she was really very nice. She also informed us that she does inspirational speaking. We are trying to get our school district to approve the visit.

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I hope the op gets a chance to read this but what exactly was incriminating about the story? I can't imagine carrie dating one of pipers brothers was a crime but I don't know

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I don't know if I necessarily believe Carrie was killed. I'm assuming she did not pick the American family, part of the premise of the movie. She was there for a few months then returned home. I highly doubt her family would have killed her. She probably shared with them her newly found thoughts and beliefs which would have upset her parents her parents greatly, but more than likely they convinced her, or black mailed her to drop it and go about her life in South Africa without getting involved anymore or having contact with the Dellums. Sometimes for financial survival or to keep your family a person will give up their beliefs.

I think the Dellums feel she was murdered because they saw their version the dark ugly evil side of apartheid and would assume since she was a government officials daughter she would be murdered.

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That IS sad to hear it comfirmed she was killed . at least her former host family tried to fimd. I was hoping her death was just speculation After reading the rest of this thread I see it may or may not be true> Maybe the truth will come out someday

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'Confirmed' by whom? It may/may not be true, but if so, killed by whom? Do people in South Africa just get killed and there is no mention of it? I know this took place a long time ago, but still.

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It's on right now and in two hours it will be on again on the west coast. I am sure that if she was killed, it was by oppressors trying to silence her because she was making an impact. Similar to Anti-Mafia officials disappearing. Very sad, but it happens. Does anyone know they exact years in which the story was set.

And obviously Disney (especially at that time) couldn't have part of the movie be about the romance between Carrie and Piper's brother. One, it would distract from the serious issue at hand, and two, while it may not seem like a big thing nowadays, even on Disney, interracial dating was very risqué a decade ago, and even worse the further you go back. Heck in the early 90's there were very few interracial couples in Film. Even if they are the pioneers of it, I will applaud Disney in breaking those barriers in 2013 with Gabe Duncan from Good Luck Charlie dating his Black Neighbor's granddaughter and even Stuart and Zuri on Jessie counts. Chyna on ANT Farm has liked more than one or two white boy too. Being black, I'm happy to see things change over the past couple decades and I'm sure things will get even better.

As for the inaccuracies of the film at hand; I definitely wouldn't call this lazy writing, but it was unnecessary to get the point across. That said, it could have explored if Disney wasn't the creators.

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Though it is possible and perhaps even likely that Carrie returned home and was pressured to change her beliefs and cease contact with the Dellums, I agree with the first part of your post.

I do not however, agree with this, excepting your first point about distracting from the issue at hand:

And obviously Disney (especially at that time) couldn't have part of the movie be about the romance between Carrie and Piper's brother. One, it would distract from the serious issue at hand, and two, while it may not seem like a big thing nowadays, even on Disney, interracial dating was very risqué a decade ago, and even worse the further you go back. Heck in the early 90's there were very few interracial couples in Film. Even if they are the pioneers of it, I will applaud Disney in breaking those barriers in 2013 with Gabe Duncan from Good Luck Charlie dating his Black Neighbor's granddaughter and even Stuart and Zuri on Jessie counts. Chyna on ANT Farm has liked more than one or two white boy too. Being black, I'm happy to see things change over the past couple decades and I'm sure things will get even better.
No offense, but in no way was any show on the current Disney Channel pioneers of ANYTHING. In my opinion it actually WASN'T seen as risque to portray an interracial couple on Disney Channel in 2003 (a decade ago). I'm not sure where this sentiment is coming from but I suspect a bit of revisionist history is at hand here. They have been portrayed quite a few times during the late 90s and early 2000s in film and on different Disney Channel series. In my opinion, though it may be more common to see now, I think this was a period where it wasn't talked about as if it were a big deal. Now I'm strictly referring to the Disney Channel here even though that mentality spilled over in other areas of CHILDREN'S programming.

For example there was The Famous Jett Jackson which had Kayla, a biracial character with a white father and black mother shown in the series.

There was Hounded starring Tahj Mowry, I believe he liked his friend in that movie, cannot be sure if they outright said so or just implied, but she was white.

Also Don't Look Under the Bed had Frances (white) and Larry Houdini (black) share a kiss onscreen.

Another is Up, Up, and Away, the main character's white female friend was also his love interest.

Cheetah Girls, Raven Symone's love interest was white, also her character was bi-racial herself with both parents shown in a loving relationship.

And those are just examples of SOME of the black/white interracial couples portrayed on the Disney Channel. All between 1998-2003. I haven't even touched the other races or combinations.

There were also portrayals on shows like Even Stevens that just sort of blend in because it was pretty common or either something I didn't take note of back then.

I think Disney Channel, at least when I was watching it was trying to sell that racial unity ideal but they also had moments of realism. By that I mean shows like The Famous Jett Jackson didn't ignore the issue of race but it wasn't a focal point. Movies like this one The Color of Friendship showed a harsher side of race relations but even on the Disney Channel realism on this level was rare. See Tru Confessions and to a lesser degree Don't Look Under the Bed.

I also think people exaggerate, to a degree, the idea that interracial relationships were risque especially in the 90s. Maybe, maybe in the early 90s but I notice that when they start making shows/movies about it, then it's already something that has been happening (generally accepted) for years. Now that's not to say there weren't race-related incidents because there were, but most people could get by just fine in real life. With that being said, I do believe that race relations have been MOSTLY linear as you stated, particularly in the U.S., but it's more complicated than that.





Rest in Peace Jim Kelly, you will be missed.

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