Am I The Only Gay Man Who Hates This Film?
I had really looked forward to seeing 'BE' as the premise was great. Big city gay boy goes to rural tiny hometown due to family crisis. And from the way the film begins, I was expecting a realistic, touching and possibly bittersweet tale of relationships, and the added suspense of not knowing whether the story would turn out happy or bleak.
What happened? We suddenly (around the time of the leap into the lake early on) segue out of this and into a parallel universe where old ladies cook goodies and play matchmaker to two gays. Where old men in current rural America sit whittling and coyly plot how best to get two men together?!Puh-lease!
And the leading characters are frankly, more unpleasant and uninteresting than any two people you'd encounter in an elevator.
And oh yes, the shy Native American/French chef and the "running scared" bit. Maybe cute the first time or two, but after the 14th or 15th time, it did get old.
Maybe if the audience had been forewarned that this was just the most sheer of fantasies ("Gay Eden" for a title, perhaps) it might be different. Seriously, my feeling is that if some gay guy in Montana had bopped his head falling from a horse or something, and had fantasized about a perfect rural gay life, before coming back to reality, and if the leads had been attractive and sympathetic, who knows? This could have been a fine film.
But as it was, for what it was, I didn't find the picture romantic, poignant or amusing. Just a sort of insane 'Brokeback Mountain.'
I sat disappointed throughout but long before the final scene I had lost all capacity for shocked disbelief that in rural Montana, for the love of God, the citizens were just having one of their ordinary pro- homosexual dances, complete with knowing winks and kindly grins as the unlikeable guys (and a few more, as I recall) pair off.
A lot of gays seem to like this film, and they have every right to do so.
I just can't understand why.