too young!


i think bug hall and mischa were too young during that time to do their parts (especially because its about sex) in skipped parts. i just dont get it... maybe it's just me.

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A lot of teenagers do get pregnant at that age because adults think "they're too young to discuss sexuality with them". Just for consideration...

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A little late but I agree with TomB-5

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she got pregnant because the boy's mother did discuss sex with them

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What do you mean?? ... The ages of the actors at the time were the same as the characters they played - which makes it much more realistic if you ask me.


Maybe I don't understand what you mean.

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You would really hate the book then. In the movie, they are 14. In the book, they're 12. In the third book of the trilogy (Social Blunders), Sam in 30 with a daughter (Shannon) who is a freshman in college.

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hi ! I didn't know it was a trilogy... Can u tell me the name of the 2nd book please ? coz I can't find it...
thank u

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the name of the second book is sorrow floats, it's about maurey and her struggles with alcholism, it's soo great.

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Just a little reminder, Mischa Barton was in a TV Series (Once and Again) where she had a SAME-SEX kiss with actress Evan Rachel Wood. Both actresses were 12-13 at the time.
In my opinion, it's up to the actresses themselves - if they want to do it, let them....there gonna find out sooner or later, right?

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Um, no, not the case at all, actually. Mischa Barton was 16 when she kissed Evan Rachel Wood (who was 14 1/2 at the time) on Once and Again.

Something else that's weird....the movie says that the kids are 14, but they're in 7th grade? They're old 7th graders!

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omg!! i no what u mean!! when i heard that.. i was like what the hell why are they 14 if there in 7th grade... they should be in 8th grade.= good movie tho

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> i just dont get it... maybe it's just me.

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probably they kept clothes on during filming.
"Pretty baby" is worse.
Its about a girl whose mom s a whore.
Brooke Shields (she was only 13 then) is the girl. She prostitutes herself in the movie and she looks like really naked in it.
There is worse.

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I've seen SKIPPED PARTS and PRETTY BABY. I totally enjoyed SKIPPED PARTS, thought PRETTY BABY was like much more serious and real, but I don't get why everyone is complaining about the sex and nudity. Both movies are just stories and the sex and nudity are part of what the stories are about. I think MISCHA BARTON and BROOKE SHIELDS should be like proud of their work.



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I completely agree with you melissa. Way too young, it doesnt matter if their "the same age as the characters so it makes it more realistic." If I had a child that was fifteen and was a actress i wouldnt want her playing a part that provactive.

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Yeah but it beats the hell out of being the actual mother of a daughter who got herself pregnant that young. I mean this stuff actually happens. When I was in junior high it wasn't unusual to see pregnant 11 year olds, and I am not kidding. The movie might be improper if the material wasn't true, but the fact is, this stuff happens and not just once in a while ALL THE TIME. The mom not minding the behavior is a bit weird, that's not normal, but I personally find it annoying when someone is playing a role that they are obviously too old for. Plus, they probably already knew a lot for their age anyway, and they are obviously mature enough to handle it. And I mean I know that I was interested in that sort of stuff when I hit junior high.

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I came here to find out about this movie because it's being shown on TV tomorrow, so I can't comment on it yet. I just wanted to add a comment about being "too young."

My 13 yr old granddaughter refuses to ride the school bus because the girls are giving the boys bjs in the back of the bus. She says it's all the rage now, the girls keep score. She says the bus driver knows and does nothing.

I used to think it was bad to get old but since my grdaughter told me this story I think it must be worse to be a kid nowadays. :-(

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No kidding. It is good, however, that she is not one of the ones doing this. You can be proud of her for that.

The person that replied above me smells kinda funny!!!!

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Well said, Wow. Here where I live, a lot of kids have sex since 12 or 13, some even smoke or drink, dance in clubs, flirt with older boys and sometimes they get pregnant and no one gives a damn by that.

Just no one cares. It seems that all this young stuff scandal is happening mostly in the US.

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I have a friend who is a Junior High teacher and on of the problems going on in junior high and high school now is oral sex and yes even Anal, the girls don't have to worry about pregnancy that way. If you think kids who are 12 or 13 don't know enough about sex, wake up.

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That's not true @J. Hernandez.
I've been living in germany for a while now and you should see the kids over here. 11, 12, 13-year olds get all dressed up and go out to clubs, get drunk and go home with different guys every week. I live in a small town, so I can really watch the development of the "kids" here. In the past year I've seen lots of 13-17 year old girls pregnant. And it doesn't seem to be the problem that the kids don't know enough about sex. The problem is that nobody seems to care anymore. The pregnant girls I mentioned, their parents didn't say anything about their pregnancy. And when the babies were born, the girls started going back to the same clubs doing the same sh** all over again while THE parents take care of the babies.
Anyway, my point is, its not only the US..

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Yes Lisa, but... notice that I agree with you. I said that the SCANDAL is happening mostly in the USA, is where people gets paranoid about sex molesters and pedophiles. Here, no one gives a damn about it. But in all the world are happening the things you're depicting.

Here in Mexico, as an example, we have the case of a state governor is dating a 17 year old girl, who dresses as a model but her look is like a typical lolita. Everyone knows it (including HER family, but they support it for convenience $$). There are no sex scandals or pedophile trials. That STUFF only occurs (or mostly) in our neighbor country (why are they so paranoid??). Just see the initial posts in this thread. They just care a little too much.

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Paranoid? Care too much? WTF!
I think it is called having morals and a sense of decency and caring what the hell happens to these individuals and society as a whole. If the situation is worse in Europe (which is debatable), it is because they probably have surrendered to amorality long ago while America is still trying to hold on to a little higher standard (albeit weakly). But as I said, that is debatable.
As for a film that depicts this stuff, it is always a fine line between promoting the decadence (ie: Pulp Fiction) or showing the reality of it and how people suffer from it (ie: Thirteen). Both can be hard to watch, but they leave you with very different feelings.

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"My 13 yr old granddaughter refuses to ride the school bus because the girls are giving the boys bjs in the back of the bus. She says it's all the rage now, the girls keep score. She says the bus driver knows and does nothing."


wow, what kind of whore-bus does your granddaughter ride in?


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it's not that you care too much is that you become paranoid but don't really do anything about it to change it, I'm currently in highschool, and although I don't think they were too young I think that it portrays reality,it happens and everyone does it it's just that you don't tell your parents, and I think it's been that way for a long time, people just don't talk about it, mostly 'cause they think it's incorrect or improper, here in Mexico sex is still a taboo but that doesn't mean that people don't practise it, and here just like in most countries it seems that kids are growing up too fast but parents don't want to realize it, that's the main problem

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Well, perhaps they are too young to get pregnant (young not in biological, but in social meaning) and perhabs it is discussable, that 14year old actors play this role.

In the U.S. perhabs this behaviour would be child abusement, in Germany Sex between two 14year old teenagers is legal. And the problem is not the age of sexual concent, but that these teenies are too bad informed about what you must do to prevent pregnancy.

Sexuality is a natural think, and it's a mistake, to think, that teenager didn't interest in it, only because the parents didn't talk about it. The interest in sex is a natural think, which appears in the puberty, and the only thing to avoid pregnancy is:

- inform your children about sex as early as he/she unterstand it. For examble I learned the first thinks in primary school (first my mother told me some thinks, in the third grade we had first thinks about it in school.) The main thinks, like "how do the body works" and "what is sex" is a topic in the fifth or sixth grade, depending on the school and the region. But: Most of the teenies than already knows much about it, we have for examble a magazine called "Bravo", a teenager magazine, mostly readed by 11-14year old teenagers, were education in sex thinks is a great part.
- inform your children about ways, they can avoid pregnancy. And let me say so: forbitting sex and wanting them to be virgins until marriage is the wrong way, because forbitten thinks are getting more interesting for teenagers, and also in America most of the children are no virgins anymore, when they become 18 years old ;) So it's important, that boys know, that they had to use condoms and that "coitus interruptus" is not good, and girls should know, that taking the pill is not anti-christianic.
- have a trustful relation to your children. Don't be paranoid, don't be suspicious, and much more important: be a good friend to your children, who don't argue bad with them, when they are interested in such things. Because when your children would be afraid to talk with you about this topics, they will do such things without you. And unfornatially get pregnant. And perhabs didn't even say this to you, because they're too afraid.
- and: let your children know: there's nothing wrong by having sex. but sex is a very intimate thing between two persons who love each other, and that *beep* around" is not a fun.

We had also such problems here in Germany, and most girls get pregnant, because:
- they weren't really prepared, they know how to have sex, but not how to avoid pregnancy, or they didn't care
- when they get pregnant, they didn't say it to their parents, so that the pregnancy is recognized to late and a abortion is not available anymore.

back to the actors: what did they do so badly? they put off their clothes before each other (we didn't see the naked bodies). and they have a little scene, where it looks like they having sex.
I think: Mischa Barton will have seen a naked male body before. perhabs in school or somewhere else (i don't talk about sex or so, only about seeing a boys body). This is not bad for teenagers, because is a normal think.
And the "sex scene". well... they only act like. They don't doing it. Acting is not reality, and if you wanted to forbit those scenes, you need to forbit much movies of all decades, for examble "The Blue Lagune" or your talk shows ;)

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HAHAHA. Please tell me that you are joking? The US has 'morals and a sense of decency' more than the rest of the world? Really? First off, most states in the USA, the age of consent is either 15 or 16. That means a guy or girl not in a authority position (teacher, cop, etc.) can be any age (30, 40, 105), and legally have sex with a 15 or 16 year old. That is the same or lower than most EU countries. Second, we are one of the few civilized countries in the world who still execute people legally. Up until the last decade or so, we were THE ONLY 'civilized' country that executed people who were under the age of 18 when the committed their crime. Until a few years ago, we also were the only country that executed mentally retarded defendants. On a global scale we rank towards the bottom of just about every single non-biased study of morality. Lets be honest--The political elites in the USA have NO interest in morals or decency. They strive to appease the bible thumpers who fill their coffers. The bible thumpers don't believe in anything but the dogmatic, illogical ideals of their story book. Please don't confuse that with morality, dignity or caring.

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Germany has about a zero population growth, except for the Muslim immigrants. Apparently there is a general depression where everyone gives up even the appearance of civilization. As a result the kids are like Lord of the Flies and nobody cares because they all feel damned. If you know Breugel or Hieronymus Bosche this feeling must go way back.

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I don't understand. You think the actors were too young to portray characters the same age as themselves? Do you think they were too young to be saying the things in the script? They were kids, but still professional actors and I'm sure they're parents explained sex long before they made this movie. There's nothing to worry about.

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