I appreciate your sincerity, Jevicci, but I still think you are just making excuses for John's behaviour. Though it is true that by the end of the movie our protagonists had redeemed themseves and emerged as a brave and loyal couple, the pair of them began the story as a pair of callous and mercenary arses. One was no better than the other. She wanted to rip him off for every penny. He wanted to use her for a sex-toy - regardless of her own likes or dislikes.
By the way, before you label me prejudicial and assumptive about John due (I assume) to his sexual orientation, I suggest you check out the 'Secretary' board thread entitled 'A Long-Awaited Celebrity Coming Out', and the Adrienne Shelly board thread entitled 'Tanya Quinn in Homicide: Life On The Street', both of which were begun by me. You will find them of some interest I'm sure. Especially the first, as it has a direct connection with the female lead of 'Birthday Girl'.
For myself, I must admit that I too am rather shy and awkward in certain social situations. I am also broke, middle-aged and have the look of a Florida death-row inmate. Neverthess, I am also sitting somewhat uncomfortably because last week I visited the London Alternative Market and puchased a sturdy leather paddle, which was later applied to me with much vigour at a private party by Miss Kitty, the LAM's House Domme.
We all have issues in our lives, Jevicci, but for some of us the 'bought-and-paid-for slave-girl' is just a harmless fantasy and NOT an objective reality. For John, I'm not so sure...
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