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So you are not gay if you are TOP?

posted 18 years ago by remytherem
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Strange how greeks and spanish, and other eastern europeans deny that they were gay even if they have anal gay sex as long as they are not the guy on the bottom lol. It's funny!

[–] blue-lagoon 16 years ago

As one character rightly says "What difference does it make whether you shag or are shagged?"

So much to see, so little time!

[–] gayspiritwarrior 14 years ago

He's a paid whore, and does guys too. Homosexuality isn't in what you do--anyone can stick it anywhere--it's in who you are. No, he's not gay. He's a straight guy who lets gay guys hire him because they pay him well. If you think doing gay stuff makes you gay you've been seriously misled.

"The value of an idea has nothing to do with the honesty of the man expressing it."--Oscar Wilde

[–] Xcalat3 14 years ago

apparently not!

When there's no more room in hell, The dead will walk the earth...

[–] Aulic Exclusiva 14 years ago

It's a very old Mediterranean idea from Antiquity, when boy love was common: one could be a bottom when young, but not in adulthood. An adult bottom was laughed at.

This very old idea, older than the modern concept of homosexuality, obviously survives in this form, still common in the Mediterranean and in Latin America.

Snobbery is a form of romanticism, the chastity of the perfectionist

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[–] paiginoc 13 years ago

It's not just Eastern Europe: look at the "keeping it down low" thing in American black culture, or the homosexual hazing games in college fraternities.

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