What it really comes down to is that sexualaity can't truly be defined or classified. I have never met any gay man or woman who claims to have only been attracted to the same sex. Just like i've never met any straight person who claims that they've never thought about same sex encounters. That's why i hate labels, because all they do is cause trouble.
And i think bisexuals get the most *beep* because they get it from homosexuals and heterosexuals. Alot of my gay friends claim that there is no such thing as a bisexual and that they all fall one way or another.
well, no freaking duh. you can't marry a man and a woman at the same time. *eyeroll*
but anyway, i think the smartest thing is to avoid labels on your sexuality and just admit that you like people. having labels just throws you into confusion anytime you like someone you're "not supposed to"
and i could never explain it very well, so i turn to kevin smith to explain my feelings:
"
Alyssa: You know, I didn't just heed what I was taught, men and women should be together, it's the natural way, that kind of thing. I'm not with you because of what family, society, life tried to instill in me from day one. The way the world is, how seldom it is that you meet that one person who just *gets* you - it's so rare. My parents didn't really have it. There were no examples set for me in the world of male-female relationships. And to cut oneself off from finding that person, to immediately halve your options by eliminating the possibility of finding that one person within your own gender, that just seemed stupid to me. So I didn't. But then you came along. You, the one least likely. I mean, you were a guy.
Holden: Still am.
Alyssa: And while I was falling for you I put a ceiling on that, because you *were* a guy. Until I remembered why I opened the door to women in the first place: to not limit the likelihood of finding that one person who'd complement me so completely. So here we are. I was thorough when I looked for you. And I feel justified lying in your arms, 'cause I got here on my own terms, and I have no question there was some place I didn't look. And for me that makes all the difference. "
alright, that's enough outta me.
Okay Awesome
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