Even though Jim blew it.....

Probably true.

Im pissed that he blew it though.

Also she wanted him to touch her and by the looks of it finger her, so why did it matter that he blew his load. She would have just licked it all of him and told him to rub her raw.

While that's true, he also managed to completely blow it in the most horrible way possible.

It's high school. Do you think any teenager is self-aware or honest enough to say, "Well, that could have been any of us if we were in that situation." Hell no. When you're a teenager, in your own mind you're the best and everyone else sucks.