I'd be pissed if someone walked into my house with shoes on. It's disrespectful.
"Hey, lets ruin your carpets and get dirt on your floor!". In summer I wouldn't really care, but in winter you bring in snow, gravel, slush... And we have a lot of winter over here.
People walk with their socks on or bare foot.
I don't understand how they do in countries where they dont take em off. Do you sit in your couch with dirty shoes? Do you wear them in bed?
In the US, its not a common or universal practice. Growing up (in Maryland) I'd never heard of a no-shoes rule in anyone's house and many people do just leave their shoes on until bed. I was probably in my early 20s before I heard of it. I've always removed shoes coming in, but out of comfort I just prefer slippers.
Now, I while I prefer for my family to remove their shoes in the house, I don't demand my guest to (out of their comfort) but I do get the level of dirt they could be tracking in. I just deal with regularly vacuuming and mopping.
Also my son, goes to a home-based preschool where it is the rule. If you need to walk around in shoes, they provide slip-ons for your shoes. The owner grew up in Japan.
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