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posted by coolbluegreen
It's been a while since I cringed at a sentence. Even the previous examples of appalling sentence structure in this thread (and the one that can be found below) did not affect me in the way the Valley Girl phrase above did.
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Liza-19 wrote: MMExcuse me, but it was a joke. I didn't mean it to sound like proper English.>>
Oh, I know you didn't. However, you really don't know how to write well.
Liza-19 wrote: <<And I am about as far removed from a Valley Girl as you can possibly get. >>
Whatever.
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posted by coolbluegreen
randommovies2002 was politely saying that while the illustrations underscored key points in the book and even added information, the depiction of characters in Victorian Era costumes indicated nothing more than Thackeray's preference for the fashions of his era.
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Liza-19 wrote: <<You yourself are twisting his words to fit your own meanings.>>
No, I'm not. His meaning is crystal clear -- to those who know how to interpret what they read.
Liza-19 wrote: <<Since you admire randommovies2002 so much, maybe you should let him speak for himself?>>
I did. Not only did I let randommovies speak for him/herself, I also understood what s/he wrote. You didn't. In fact, your ability to interpret randommovies's writing is so, well, nonexistent that you thought s/he was agreeing with you. I don't think you were lying there -- I think you honestly could not understand what randommovies was saying.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I do agree that randommovies2002 is very polite. I have no problems with him whatsoever. I think you could learn a lot from him, as you are completely without manners yourself.>>
Yes, I've already admitted that. Was it too hard for you to understand what I wrote when I did? BTW, you could learn something from me about how to admit a flaw or a mistake.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I will be happy to have a discussion with you later, when you have learned how to speak politely and treat others with respect.>>
Oh, that's not true. Now you are lying. You have supposedly put me on ignore. Trust me, it's not delightful to read your atrocious writing, but that is nothing in comparison with the disgust I feel at your inability to admit it when you make a mistake or don't know something. You would rather lie than admit to a mistake. That verges on being sociopathic. Why can't you just say, "I made a mistake"? What terrible thing do you think would happen? Nothing would. I make mistakes all the time, and I admit them, too.
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posted by coolbluegreen
If you are indeed a member of JASNA, you really should try to use that to your advantage. You can find many educators among its members who could help you with the technical difficulties you frequently encounter in your writing, for example. They could also help you improve your vocabulary. Perhaps they could even help you learn to interpret text better (and, of course, to understand what text actually is). If you don't understand something -- say so. Don't pretend you do.
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Liza-19 wrote: <<The complete arrogance of your post surpasses everything I've ever seen from you.>>
It may surpass anything you have seen from me, but it doesn't surpass what you yourself can do. Your arrogance leaves mine in the dust -- and you have no reason to be arrogant.
Liza-19 wrote: <<You have an awfully high opinion of yourself,>>
You have a high opinion of yourself, or seem to. Actually, I think you are deeply insecure and that is why you cannot admit it when you don't know something or make an error. You would rather lie than deal with the truth.
Liza-19 wrote: <<and I actually feel sorry for you - it is a very unattractive quality. People with good manners do not spend their time picking at grammatical errors made online. You are an extremely rude person to say what you have said to me. >>
Oh, I know I am rude. I've admitted it. You aren't telling me anything I don't know. Why don't you try admitting it when you make a mistake? You have been pretty rude yourself, too. You have lied about me and what I have said, for starters. Look below.
Liza-19 wrote: <<Since you have attacked my education,>>
I never attacked your education. Prove it -- if I am wrong, I'll admit it (something you need to learn how to do), but I don't think I ever attacked your education.
I commented on your inability to interpret what you read, your poor sentence structure, and your inability to admit when you don't understand something or have made an error. I also think you lie or twist things to suit whatever it is you want to believe. Your claim that I attacked your education is a good example of this tendency of yours. What you said is untrue -- but that doesn't matter to you. You just make up a lie about something I said -- or, with your weak reading comp, you may really believe I said something I didn't. If I did say something about your education and have forgotten it, cite it. Prove it. Let me know and I will admit to a mistake. However, I think you are either mistaken or lying.
Liza-19 wrote: <<let me tell you that I have two college degrees in English and have written a thesis on Vanity Fair.>>
If that is true, that is just appalling. What degrees do you have, btw? And what degree was your thesis for? What was its topic and title? How long was it?
Liza-19 wrote: <<I don't however, apply all of my grammatical rules when I'm typing online.>>
Are you saying it's an effort for you to follow the rules of grammar when you write? You see, for people who know the rules, it's just natural to follow them. It's instinctual.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I'm trying to get my thoughts in order and get the message out.>>
You don't do that when you write badly.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I am not alone in this.>>
I know. You are not in good company.
Liza-19 wrote: <<In fact, I find that only people who have no other arguments left are the ones who start to pick on grammer and sentence structuring.>>
True. However, I commented on more than your grammar (was your spelling "grammer" a typo, too?) and sentence "structuring" (use "structure"). Among other things, your polemical skills are weak. You had no argument. You didn't even know what "text" meant. I am pretty sure you don't know what "polemical" means, either.
Liza-19 wrote: <<You obviously were out of intelligent discussion,>>
It was impossible to have one with you, due to your inability to understand what you were reading. You couldn't understand the terms I used. You couldn't understand what randommovies wrote. You couldn't admit that. Maybe you don't know that. However, your ideas about the costuming of the characters in Vanity Fair were flatly contradicted by Thackeray himself.
Liza-19 wrote: <<and this was the only thing left for you to argue about. I really do feel sorry for you.>>
Well, I feel sorry for you, not so much for your bad writing and reading comp skills as for your inability to admit it when you don't have a clue. Of course, you are right about one thing -- my manners have not exactly been gracious. At least I don't lie.
Liza-19 wrote: <<And apart from my technical difficulties, you don't even know how to quote someone properly.>>
There is nothing wrong with the way I have quoted you or Thackeray on imdb. If there is, and I am unaware of it, I, unlike you, will be happy to admit that I am wrong and happy to learn the correct way.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I've been trying to ignore the technical mistakes in your posts out of politeness,>>
I doubt that.
Liza-19 wrote: <<but since you are unaware of what it means, (or to be more accurate, you expect it from everyone but yourself)>>
Where do you get that from? You just say things that you want to believe are true. It doesn't matter if they are true or not. I am not sure if you know you are lying or if you actually believe the easily refuted nonsense you spout.
Clearly I am aware of what politeness is. If I weren't, how could I be able to appreciate the exquisite manners randommovies shows?
I also have no idea why you think I expect good manners from anyone. I never said anything like that -- but that doesn't matter. If you truly believe I said that, then you really need to work on your reading comp. Well, you need to work on your reading comp anyway. However, there is also the possibility that you know I never said anything like that and are just lying.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I'm going to make a point of it. Learn how to quote properly on the web before you make any more "technical" complaints.>>
Please feel free to correct me, to show me my errors. Unlike you, I am happy to admit I have been mistaken (when and if I have been) and learn the correct way to do something. My main complaint about you, however, has nothing to do with your technical skills (although those are bad). No, I just can't stand it when people cannot admit that they have made a mistake or don't know something.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I am not going to go back into the text vs. illustrations argument with you again.>>
No, because then you would have to admit you were wrong. However, you DO get back into it with me. Much of what follows is another rehash of that very argument. I am not sure if you were consciously lying when you wrote that or if you are just unaware that you said isn't true.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I considered the pictures and captions to be as important as the text, you did not.>>
I never said that. Now, are you lying or is your reading comp so bad you think I said that? Anyway, I think the illustrations are very important and I have said that.
Liza-19 wrote: <<You claim to be the expert, and that your interpretation is the only one possible.>>
I never said that. I just think your interpretation is wrong and ridiculous. It flies in the face of what Thackeray himself said. You are quite arrogant, you know. You believe that because I disagree with YOU, I think my interpretation is the only one possible. That's silly. There are many different interpretations of all kinds of things out there. Some may contradict mine, but if they are good, if they can be supported by the text, they are valid.
Liza-19 wrote: <<Only fools think they are right all the time.>>
Oh, you should take that advice yourself. I know I am not right all the time. However, I also know that you had no idea what you were talking about when we were discussing "text."
Liza-19 wrote: <<You also posted a quote that is in the book, and claimed you found it in an interview. People who are well-educated know where they pull their quotes from.>>
Prove it. I don't believe you. Sure, I could have made a mistake, but it's far more likely that you are either lying or that you misunderstood me.
Liza-19 wrote: <<You also keep trying to say I don't understand what text is.>>
You may now. You didn't when we were discussing it.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I kept trying to explain that I was discussing the book as a whole, you were just talking about the text.>>
You confused quotes from Thackeray ABOUT Vanity Fair for quotes FROM Vanity Fair itself. Nothing in the text of Vanity Fair or, indeed, the part of Thackeray's comments that I quoted supports your wacky idea that he wanted us to picture the characters in Victorian dress for some satirical purpose. He told us why he drew the characters the way he did, but his own words and explanation aren't good enough for you.
Since you are completely incapable of making the distinction, then you are the one having problems with English. You are the one who should take some more classes.>>
Oh, I think my 5 on the English AP exam, my 740 score on the verbal section of the SAT, and my summa cum laude degrees in English say otherwise.
Liza-19 wrote: <<It also wouldn't hurt you to learn something about online ettiquete.>>
Oh, I agree. I've already said that.
Liza-19 wrote: <<Most places make it a rule not to correct other people's grammer, because (guess what) it is a very rude and pointless thing to do.>>
You keep spelling "grammar" incorrectly. I guess you don't know how to spell it. Anyway, I am just pointing out that your own weaknesses in English undermine your attempts to appear to know anything about it.
Liza-19 wrote: <<You have not seriously thought about anything I've said.>>
Again, I am not sure if you are lying or if you really believe that. Obviously I have thought seriously about what you have said about Vanity Fair -- and I have disagreed with it and found it completely baseless.
Liza-19 wrote: <<All you've done is complain and complain and talk about how your opinion is the only one that counts.>>
Do you REALLY believe I have done that? If so, that's sad. You think that just because I disagree with you I believe that mine is the only opinion that counts. How egotistical of you!
Liza-19 wrote: <<Please spend more time with randommovies2002. If he or she is willing to tolerate you, that is. >>
Pathetic swipe. Perhaps you should spend more time with him/her as well.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I am done discussing things with someone who argues like a twelve-year-old.>>
I am rude. However, I don't lie and I am not stupid.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I have never made rude remarks about you personally.>>
Yes, you did. Look at the very post I am replying to! You are incapable of admitting that you have any faults, aren't you.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I have never said that since we disagreed, you must not know what you're talking about. There's a word for that, it's called bullying. I don't care for it. You are probably used to people backing down when you started bullying them, but I do not. That is why you have gone so low as to follow me on other boards and point out my typos.>>
Uh, they weren't typos. You are lying again, but I agree that my pointing them out wasn't very nice of me. You really, REALLY should learn to admit it when you are wrong. I can. I do. It's not that hard.
Liza-19 wrote: <<That says so much about your personality. Obviously you are not at a maturity level where you can have a disagreement and intelligent discussion.>>
Can you? You can't even admit when you have made a mistake. You flat-out lie, too.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I hold very little hope for you.>>
Funny, I feel the same way about you. I don't think you will ever learn to admit it when you are wrong or when you have made a mistake or when you just don't know something. You are too insecure to do that. Try it -- you will grow if you do and your world will not fall apart. In fact, you will learn something.
Liza-19 wrote: <<You can reply to this message if you wish, but I will not read it. I'm adding you to my ignore list.>>
Maybe. Maybe not.
Liza-19 wrote: <<I truly wish you the best,>>
Well, that is gracious and polite. I mean that. I admire the part of you that is capable of writing that.
Liza-19 wrote: <<but I hope I never run into you ever again.>>
I believe you are telling the truth about that.
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