Wasnt she playing dangerous game by fooling Dilnawaz?

While it doesnt justify what Dilnawaz did , wasnt she also to be blamed for fooling around Dil? She knew she didnt love him , still she enjoyed being wooed by him or loose enough to give him liberties over her body at times....sure ..she wasnt playing with him but to play with man's ego is a dangerous thing. What really fills Dil's heart with hatred for her wasnt really that she rejected him but that she was always in love with Masseur at his back;

thats like a rage that she has always taken him or his life either for granted or as second rate compared to Massuer..that ignites jealousy ...she should have better be at least honest with Dil and told him that she loves someone else (and that she want to marry Masseur) at least for sake of whatever friendship they shared. She never says it & thats a dangerous game to play. Her lies hurt Dil much more than her rejection...he took it as a betrayal ..the second stanza of song where shanta & massuer is having sex is very reveling ..it shows turmoil in mind of Dil...she made a mistake for sure by trying to play with Dil,s ego.