peeing on self


I didn't understand the whole peeing on her legs thing. It's weird to do that but then PJ starts kissing her. Why does she do it? Why does he kiss her when she pees on herself?
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I think it was coz he was walking off, so she did something extreme to get him to come back. It said something like that in the comentry.

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I took it as a weird sign of her vulnerability at "re-birth" (like a baby)... Why that would be seen as a sex signal for PJ is another, more disturbing question.

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Oh, like he likes golden showers? Yes, a bit disturbing.
Marianne

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"We laugh at everyone's fetishes, but our own".

L. Bunuel

"What's this war in the heart of Nature?"

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Golden showers are a pretty amusing (and disgusting) fetish.

I hope this helps.

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yea well, the director and everyone else who watched it was correct.

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A sign I read too many nature books, but it may have been a sign of submitting to him, like some animals do in the presence of their alpha.

Just my guess.

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Guys what the hell.. Dont you know what does it mean.. It means that she is wet now and she needs to have sex. When girls are aroused sexually they become wet. And that what she is showing him that she became wet when she kissed him... and just after that they start having sex... That the peeing part means...

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wow man thats cool i neve knew you were so close to gutter rat. Along with the fact that you know when they urinate or when they're wet. Rats might have different functionality but, human nature is different from the rat bro.

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Haha

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What do you people not understand, the director was pretty explicit about it.

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Really In my point of view is she started peeing on herself to get his attention and to let him know how scared she was. Just The Way I Saw It!

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I believe that this scene was an elaborate plot by her to establish control over him. Peeing herself was taking it to the extreme by SUPPOSEDLY showing him submission (and breakdown)...all the while she really had the upper hand psychologically.

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I had no idea how sterilized this population really is. her move was anything but submisive. on the contrary. Her peeing and walking toward him was a dominating behaviour. only a woman clear on her sexual muscle, could loose her pheromones with the confidence that the subject of her tactic would be powerless to resist. she knows how womanly ever her pee is, and uses it to her advantage.

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Well put. I believe you're right. On a different note, I like how no 'fuss' is made about it in the film. It just happens, and the scene continues without pause. No puzzlement or other direct reactions to be detected in his face, no hesitation, no nothing. I think somehow that's what really makes it unusual. And I like it.

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You're an idiot, and this film sounds disgusting.

Maybe if she were really sexually confident, she could take a dump on herself?

Geesh.

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Simple but factual answer in 2007. Most men, and certainly some lesbians find it a turn-on to see a woman urinate. She was giving him more visual stimulus. Some of the Italian directors seem to like including a woman urinating scene in their movies.

Under our clothes, we are all naked!

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You've never kissed a girl that just pee'd on herself??? Hasn't everybody?

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Just for the sake of origionality.....
Maybe she just needed to go to the bathroom! Maybe we're all over anylizing it!

"Don't act, be."
-Kate Winslet

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Oh man!
she must be really sick!

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You killed him!
Well,I didn't mean to.
Didn't mean to? You put your sword right through his head!

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Some people (no, I am not one of them) consider urination in front of someone else extremely intimate. Some people (I am not one of them, either) find watching such a thing extremely intimate. So yes, she is trying to draw him in by exhibiting her vulnerability. He caved immediately - throughout the rest of the film we watch the "cruel" things she does to him that obviously trip his trigger, which is why he proposes and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. She thinks what they're doing is perverse and feels guilty - but it's clearly what he wants from her. A little bit like "Secretary" when James Spader whispers, "It can't go on like this," and Maggie Gyllenhaal says, "Why not?" and they end up happily together.

Only this time it's a happier ending for them both to go their separate ways and live "normal" lives. It's the way they both want it, ultimately.

Samantha
"Nobody's perfect."

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A little bit like "Secretary" when James Spader whispers, "It can't go on like this," and Maggie Gyllenhaal says, "Why not?" and they end up happily together.


With the exception that Secretary was a far, far better film than this.

I'd love to have wild monkey sex with Kate Winslet, but I dunno what bothered me more, the fact she peed herself or that fact that there wasn't a shower scene before the following sex scene. I don't care how sexy you are, it's hard to maintin an erection when the person you're having sex with smells like hot pee.

But hey, maybe she was a pre-mature squirter. Or maybe he was just into that kind of thing.

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She couldn't have just said "...Don't leave...I love you so much that I can't bear to be without you..." ?

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There are some really great observations on this thread! I think the urination was seen as submissive by him, but it was a power tactic by her--it was both--this film is abundant with dualism which is a common them in Hinduism! Om Namah Shivaya! Also--Jane loves her some Freudian images!

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