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Is anyone else crying as hard as I was?


I haven't sobbed while watching a movie like I just did watching this, in a long time.
"Haunting" it is!

But, I have to say, I feel like I've been run over.

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yes it was very sad and I hated that they could not stay together. I hated the other people for interfering.

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yes it was very sad and I hated that they could not stay together. I hated the other people for interfering

Hated Connelly's character's heartlessness for putting Crudup's character through all that pain. Could never understand someone loving someone and leaving them to suffer so others(strangers)could be helped. I believe in helping but family comes first. Her character was no better than the "corrupt, reprehensible" ones in Washington...a case of the pot calling the kettle...

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I understand completely how you felt. Really heartbreaking it was...

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Me too. I saw it last night (I rented it some years ago but felt like owning it). And I cried... again.

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I balled my eyes out, the only other movie that made me cry harder was Million Dollar Baby. The last scene just did for me, it was 5 oclock in the morning and my 25683568436th time watching this film and I still manage to cry like a huge baby. I always warn people to have tissue beside them when watching this film...Connelly and Crudup have great chemistry on screen, if only they could do another film together!!

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Watched the movie just last weekend, after having already seen it a few times (a definite favorite).

Right now I'm going through an excruciating breakup with my boyfriend of six years, because we have strongly different wants for our futures. We watched the film together, and I sobbed my heart out as it ended, and well after, until he had to ask me what I was really crying about. It was both, really - the impossibility of loving someone with whom you simply can't agree - and seeing that reflected so beautifully and truthfully in Sarah and Fielding. They love each other SO MUCH... but sometimes, there are just things bigger than the both of you...

I think their story is powerful whether or not you can relate, but this time, it really hit a spot with me - I'm tearing up now just thinking about it. As someone said above, I've definitely never cried so long or hard for a film... it really hit me on a personal level.

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I'm crying my eyes out as I type. Those of us who have been fortunate enough to be touched by that kind of love, are truly blessed. This movie is for all of us who have had to say goodbye to those we've truly loved, those taken from us by the trials of life. That haunting love is a very real thing. It's nice to be reminded of how deep one can be touched.


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That last scene did it for me, really deep movie at times. I think both Connely and Crudup were sensational in conveying that strange kind of sadness.

...I am lost, I'm no guide, but I'm by your side...

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I own a copy and cry ever time I watch that ending.

No matter what interpretation you give it:

1. She's alive and in hiding

2. She's dead and he's hallucinating everything

3. She's dead and her spirit has come back to help and comfort him

the end result is it's either he by himself coming to grips with losing her (if he's hallucinating) or it's both of them coming to grips with it (if it's her alive or her spirit).

They love each other but they can't be together.

1. If she's alive, she's hiding for political/religious reasons and also strongly believes that a marriage to Fielding could never work; he would never be a successful President or Senator with her at his side, something the movie explored in the early stages. This is actually the more emotionally painful scenario because things could change in Chile, in the 1990's, in the 2000's, etc. As long as she is alive there would always be a chance that they could be together, but in 1984 she leaves........again. 10 years have gone by.....even if she comes back in another 10 years now that things have changed, maybe their views have changed, it would likely be too late. One or both finally married, etc. That's what makes this ending if she is alive so wrenching. They fully realize again how much they love each other.....and then she leaves again, very likely dooming their chances at ever being together again for good.

2. If she's dead and it's her spirit visiting him, it's obvious why they can't be together. Still under this scenario they are given a chance to say a goodbye to each other they did not get to make in 1974. Plus it means they are both really there, since Sarah's spirit would be real, rather than a figment of his imagination.

3. If she's dead, but her spirit is not visiting him, he's hallucinating everything. In this viewpoint, Sarah herself is still in Heaven and isn't really involved in this ending scene; it's Fielding having a hallucination that results in his coming to grips with losing her.

The lost love is always the most haunting of all.

I want to believe they are both there in that room together. But I dont' want to believe that Sarah ripped herself away from Fielding to live a lie for 10 long years for some transitory revolutionary purpose.

So in the film I choose to interpret it as her spirit really being there, really helping Fielding and herself to heal and come to grips with their loss.

Because this interpretation means they really do share that moving goodbye together, something that makes her leaving again in the morning more bearable.

It also means her spirit is real, and so is his, and one day they can be together again in Heaven.

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I was crying through the whole latter half of the movie, not just the end :-\ It was terrible, but the movie was so amazing.

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It hit me like a train when she was at his door, and it surprised me how hard I was crying. What a moment. I so wanted her to be real!

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I cried for three whole days because I couldn't stop watching it, then re-watching it with the commentary by the very gracious Keith Gordon who directed it. Then I would watch deleted scenes....

...So, I tormented myself; I went out and bought the movie and the book. I cry everytime I pick either of them up either to read or to watch. Scott Spencer's writing (he wrote the book and also wrote Endless Love) is so profound. And Keith Gordon took a pretty good sized book and compressed it into a movie that is under two hours - and his work is perfect.

I can't explain why, but this movie cuts me to my marrow. So does the book. I wish I could pin point why it moves me like it does, but it's too primal..I don't know. But to answer the poster's question: yes, I cry like a blubbering idiot over this story. And don't get me going on that song by Lori Carson...:(

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