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The big question the film leaves you with


***SPOILER ALERT*** Do not read unless you've seen the film.

Did Edward have "carnal knowledge" of Heloise? No. Edward comes on to Heloise in the moss loft (or whatever) and she clearly rejects him, albeit respectfully. Later, during the big blow-up, he informs his brother-in-law, Morris, that he had sex with her because Morris was his rival for the estate, but it's A LIE. We know this because Heloise plainly declined his advances. So why did Edward lie? Evidently to stick-it-to his rival and cause the ensuing marriage problems. It was also his way of getting back at Heloise for (gently) rejected him. Bear in mind that on no occasion was Heloise guilty of improper conduct; she's almost godly and even rebukes Edward's hypocrisy at the dinner table, albeit subtly. Edward's lie was a very ignoble thing to do and it made me lose respect for him, but it was the result of his pent-up frustrations. Thankfully, he later humbly repents, to which his wife forgives and they go on to blissful matrimony.

I hope he apologized to Morris and, especially, Heloise as well.


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I'm talking about the evidence provided in the film itself, not what may or may not have happened in real life. In the movie Edward becomes smitten with Heloise and ignobly comes on to her, but she plainly declines his advances and even covertly rebukes him at the dinner table for being a Christian hypocrite.

So, in the movie, they clearly didn't shag and Edward lied about it due to his envy, rivalry and hostility toward Morris.


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I know what you're talking about, but you're missing it, as far as that being proof that they had sex. Watch the movie again and you'll see.

I'd go into detail, but it's better for you to watch the movie and see the evidence for yourself. If you insist on details, however, I'll gladly provide 'em.


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