I saw this movie when it first came out and it really touched me. The dynamics between the Mother/Daughter relationship were so close to my own relationship with my Mom. Me being the career selfish daughter, and my Mom being the loving housewife and Mother who is always smiling regardless of the situation. When I first saw the movie, I cried a lot, even though my Mom did not have health problems at the time. Then, a few years after watching the film, my Mom had a stroke.. Although Stroke and Cancer are different, the situation that the family and patient go through are the same. My Mom and I became very close after her stroke, and it reminded me of the movie. Her first stroke was mild and she was able to recover 100%. Then, a month ago, my Mom had a second stroke. This time she was left paralyzed from her right side. Again, it reminded me of the movie, this time even more so, since I've had to take over my Mom's duties. It's been a month now and my Mom is still in the hospital. Even though the Doctors believe she will get through this, they have no idea when she will be able to return back home. In the meantime, I've been dealing with my own 8 hours a day career, cleaning my parents home, cooking for my Dad and brother at home, and taking over my Mom's role. My day starts at 6 am when I go to the hospital to give my Mother a shower and breakfast. I spend some time with her before I go to work. After work, I go back to my parents' home and do the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and what ever else needs to get done. My day doesn't end until about 11 pm. Although I am happy to be able to support my parents this way, I am exhausted and some days wish I could have my old life back. It's been difficult, but every time I sit with my Mom on her hospital bed and look into her eyes, I know why this is where I need to be. The relationship between Mothers and Daughters is very special and it's one to be cherished. I now want to see the movie again.
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