Did anyone else dislike grown up Ben?
It kind of annoyed me how ungrateful he was to his biological family. He doesn't have to be all happy and on board immediately. Especially if he was court ordered from the life he knew. And forced to live with them. BUT, the way he acted towards them was pretty rude most of the time, and he didn't even try get to know them. His "dad" lived right around the corner. So how bout you chill out and at least be nice to your actual BLOOD family, and talk to them with at least respect. There was maybe one scene he was nice to his mom. I get it was the dumbest thing she could do losing him and also rushed to make him leave his home but they treated him really well, and were just happy to see him. I understand you'd be confused and uncomfortable at first but honestly like, I would imagine when you have blood relatives you would have an innate bond with them. And feel happy and appreciative to find out you have two parents and two siblings. He acted like a spoiled brat, like the last thing he ever wanted was to even get to know them. And it goes either way in whether he'd remember them or not. Most of the time children would but in this book and movie he supposedly only remembers Vincent. Which I didn't find realistic because the way Beth described him in the beginning she said he was very vocal, and sang songs over and over, and babbled to himself. Those are signs of being pretty smart of you are that communicative. And he seemed close to his mom and brother. I have memories from when I was that age, if they are just flashes I have a TON of memories. And I would imagine if I were kidnapped maybe a lot of them would be suppressed but the brain is a powerful thing, once they were back in his life I find it hard to believe more memories wouldn't flood back, more than just of his brother.I also wish they cast someone different than Ryan Merriman. I like Ryan Merriman (now) but back then he was going through a chubby stage and didn't fit in with his biological families looks at all and wasnt that great of an actor either. I just didn't like grown up Ben. His mom was depressed for years for her mistake and missed him and at the end of the film he basically states hes only going to come around and visit to get to know Vincent. Not to get to know his real parents or sister. So that last scene isnt heart warming to me. It is when Vincent is honest about his feelings, but not how Ben reacts and what he says. He still never cared about his family except Vincent.
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