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Cal was the real victim


I think the only reason he flipped the table, slapped Rose and shot at her and Jack was because otherwise the audience would've thought "Wait a minute, how is he a villain?" So for the sake of argument, let's pretend those three things never happened.

He was a massive snob, but most rich people were back then. There was nothing wrong with him as a fiance at all. He was actually a great one. He genuinely loved Rose and treated her like a princess, but she was a massive bitch to him. Even before she met Jack, she treated him like absolute *beep* She never said anything even remotely kind to him. It's not his fault Rose didn't love him. If Rose refused to marry him, that would've been absolutely fine. But if you make the conscious decision to marry someone, you should be a decent husband/wife and treat your husband/wife well. But instead she gets herself a new boyfriend while she's still engaged to him. She doesn't even try to hide it, she even brags about it. Cal did nothing to deserve that.

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The table flip and the slap is where he lost credibility. I agree with you, for the most part. Still, he probably didn't know that Rose's mother had put a lot of pressure on her daughter to accept his proposal. "You know our money is gone" is what she said. Rose was pretty much under her mother's thumb, and she did not love Cal. They were both in a lousy arrangement, and most people are on Rose's side because he grew abusive.

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It can be argued that Rose was emotionally abusive as her actions were aimed to hurt and provoke Can. The table flip was a reaction from her constant lousy behavior towards him. She taunted him with the drawing and wanted to get him were it hurts and people do not lay enough blame on Rose. The cruelty started with her.

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The only thing she hurt was his ego.

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No, while that was part of it he certainly genuine cared for her.

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I think the only reason he flipped the table, slapped Rose and shot at her and Jack was because otherwise the audience would've thought "Wait a minute, how is he a villain?"


We don't have to agree with Cameron's take on this, but as he created the characters, his opinion is of interest.

Cameron himself does not consider Cal the villain, he considers Ruth to be the villain. Cal is Ruth's "victim" (if that's the right word) as much as Rose is. Ruth's machinations were to promote her own self-interest, and not those of Cal or Rose, except possibly secondarily and by accident.

He was a massive snob, but most rich people were back then.


Cal's problem was not snobbishness, but inflated egocentrism, which is a characteristic of people of many social classes. He was not typical of his class in fact, because graciousness and good manners were drummed into the aristocrats of the day (and to a lesser extent, since) and the script reveals in several places that Cal was not regarded highly by others of his class. Cal's father wouldn't let him have his own money because he didn't consider him responsible, and he hired Lovejoy to keep his son out of the trouble that would have ensued when he patrolled the less attractive sides of foreign towns.

He genuinely loved Rose and treated her like a princess


Cameron does say that Cal genuinely loved Rose "in his own way," but also that Cal was a "borderline psychopath" (meaning a narcissist) and considered Rose to be a "trophy wife," like owning a prize race horse. Cal was polite to Rose in public, it's true, but he didn't treat her "like a princess," either. A royal would not be yanking a cigarette out of his fiancees mouth, talk about censuring her reading, or order her meals without consulting her, though he might be just as bossy in private; "keeping up appearances" is numero uno in high society, and Cal hadn't learned this because he wasn't from high society himself. His family was "new money," like Margaret Brown, and he had not mastered the social graces that would be needed in his new station.

So, while I don't think Cameron's portrayal of Cal is very flattering it's not as a villain either. It's Ruth who's the object of his scorn and her fate, while left ambiguous, is clearly not enviable. I think it's fair to consider Cal one of Ruth's victims.

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Two questions palisde pertaining to the two instances that you peg Cal as behaving poorly towards Rose in public. I used to think the same thing, however you must consider both circumstances. The cigarette incident occurred after Rose pulled one out and her mother leans.in and quietly tells her that Rose knew that Ruth didn't like that. In response she turns to Ruth and blows smoke in her face at which point Cal snatches the cigarette. When he made the comment about "minding what she reads" again, it was in response to an unwarranted phallic jab at Ismay. I highly doubt that she would be lauded as a pistol or a spitfire by those present, even a real life Margaret Brown would have found her off putting. It seemed more like she was intentionally trying to provoke. I always thought there conversation of art was more playful banter, Cal seemed to be high spirited and Rose just brushed him off. It almost seems like she didn't like him because she was pressured to marry him. I never saw those two incidents as evidence of future abuse.

Even when he made the remark about the better half surviving, it was more to upset Rose. In all honesty he probably didn't care, but he wasn't wishing it. When he saw the crying little girl and initially left her there, that was my point of seeing him as bad, however I can't really translate the expression on his face when he looked at her. Was he considering bringing her along out of sympathy?

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Well, James Cameron is an idiot for not considering Cal a victim and saying that he genuinely loved Rose "in his own way" and that he was a "borderline psychopath" because love and abuse don't go together and if your partner is hurting you physically or emotionally, he or she doesn't love you.

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Not a villain? Hey, when he realized there weren't enough lifeboats, he took a child away from her parents, promised them he'd get her on a boat, used the child to get on board himself, and promptly abandoned her!

I kind of admire that, he was the only smart character in the movie, the only one who could think fast and creatively.

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The original poster was not referring to that at all. She/ he was referring to Rose treating Cal bad and not being nice to him.

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FYI both the OP and I are being fascetious.

At least, I hope we both are!

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I think Cal was a snob true but, I do agree with you that he wasn't all together a bad guy. I think he truly loved Rose and she was mean to him by not giving him a chance and talking rudely to him and also CHEATING on him; which I think is the worst thing of all. I don't think it was right that he slapped her and he should have controlled his anger but, Rose was not perfect either. I sort of felt bad for Cal in a way...

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I think it's interesting in this day and age when people are crying so much for feminism that they are blind to the fact that in 1912 women's rights were actually very limited. In 1912 women still did not even have the right to vote and a single woman without money had limited choices still.

Rose was pressured to marry Cal because he had money and her mother saw no other recourse for her and her daughter. She did seem the true villain but she was also feeling desperate because their options were few..
Rose had a name which Cal coveted and it was basically a business proposition for him. He did not love her. It was more a business deal to elevate his position with her name and Rose as arm candy. Did he hurt his ego that she rebuffed him.? Sure, to him she should have been on her knees in gratitude. But it wasn't a wounded heart he had. Just ego.
He thought money could buy anything.
Rose did not love Cal and felt she had no choices in life so she was not full of gratitude.
Do slaves feel gratitude just because they may get treated well?.

Of all banal love stories (think Romeo and Juliet) the story of Jack and Rose has more teeth.
Jack was a poor boy with limited choices as well and so he and Rose related in that way. And it was her experience with the adventuresome Jack and her struggle with him to survive that set her free and led her to realize that despite their limitations it was possible to live a full life on ones own terms if one could be courageous and strong and put aside all her fears of the unknown.
Because hadn't the worst already happened to her in the Titanic?

Because of Jack Rose was able to live a life full of adventure and possibilities. His influence was great.
He was the best thing that ever happened to her.

Cal is not deserving of sympathy. He lost what he felt was property (and some really expensive jewelry).
Women (and men) today should realize just how far they've come and realize how different things really are then they use to be.

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-He tried to frame Jack for stealing and had him handcuffed.

-He slapped his finance in the face that he supposedly "loves".

-He throws hissy fits all the time.

-He also tried to shoot both Jack AND Rose.

How is he the victim again???🤔🤔😂

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He only did those things after Rose cheated. It's like someone calling you the aggressor if after being punched in the face you punch the person back.

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Why are people making excuses for him?

If someone cheats on you, the mature thing is to dump her ass and walk away. You don't put your hands on someone and threaten the life of someone else. In today's world, he'd be in jail for that stuff.

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It wasn't set in today's world though was it? He had superiority over Jack and in those days men would duel over such things.

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Being mad at Jack and Rose is understandable. But pointing a gun and threatening to kill them isnt.

Plus, he was also a jerk to everyone else. When Rose called out her mom by saying "There aren't enough boats and half the ppl on the ship we're going to die." He snarkingly said, " Not the better half." You can't blame Rose for not wanting to be with him.

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Again though that was after he was jilted.

He saved himself and lived to fight another day.

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I agree they had to make him look like a dick to justify Rose cheating on him. He actually did every right and everything he was supposed to do given the era and his status.

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