Child abuse victim? Oh, not again...
Once and again American story about child abuse. When I first saw a movie about incest, and it was long before a hysteria spread all over the world - a beautiful movie, a great drama 'Something About Amelia' with incredible cast (Ted Danson, Glenn Close, Roxana Zal), it was the first time I understood the problem existed at all. And there was still some old-fashioned hope for the involved, and for family as entire. Then I saw a TV movie "Voices Within" with Shelley Long, not that good, but still interesting and fresh, about a multiple personality due to sexual molestation in childhood. And since then I realize the problem, and so do most of others who have seen any of these early movies who dealt with this topic. Unfortunatelly monstrous crimes like the one that was revealed in Belgium in mid-90's made child molestation one of the most popular themas. Now almost any problem adults have in modern movies happens to be a consequence of child abuse, and at least half of the children appearing in modern movies (except comedies) are molested (mostly sexually). So this tragic dark side of human relations became something boring. After 10 minutes you can say: "Ah, again one more child abuse movie...", and you don't involve your emotions any more. And political correctness in USA never enables movie authors to leave any hope in the movie: the molester (almost equal as father) is an impersonal monster (I wonder how are all women so blind to marry them). I do not defend any criminal, and any molester, but every situation, every person, every family is different. As Tolstoy said - every happy family looks the same, and every unhappy is unhappy in its own way. But due to P.C. every unhappy family in USA movies is unhappy because of child abuse, and every woman, man and child involved looks the same. So we became witnesses of an absurd situation: condemning exploitation became one of most exploitive themas in modern film industry. Children and abuse are used to sell movies (and the papers are sold better if there's a headline about sexual molestation - what's in the human nature that people adore to read about it so eagerly and breathlessly?). Maybe in 50 years we'll be able to distinguish masterpieces from B-type clones, as we can see differences among westerns that all looked quite same in 50's. So: if in earlier westerns cavalry used to come to rescue good white guys from red savages, P.C. made all westerns upside-down, and now all soldiers became killers, and noone dared to mention that Indians had made some slaughters as well (crimes done defending your country still are crimes, as we are taught by Haague court, except if made by US soldiers, as we are taught by US government); the same - as movies till 80's told the importance of obedience and never even let any abuse be implied, today only one-parent (mother) families can be abuse-free, and that only in case mother has no lover, brother or neighbour. And (with just a few exceptions) every suspicion that abuse happened always ends the same: father (or in less than 10% someone else) did it. If not so, because of P.C. audience might refuse to watch such a movie.
And a question that some people will hate me for, and some will despise me: if so many molestation happens in USA as their movies show us, what the hell is wrong with that people? How sane can this nation be if half of them are molestors, and another half has serious psychological problems due to molestation? And, finally, remember that this nation tries to lead the whole world and input their moral standards to the rest of the world! If, on the other hand, this doesn't reflect the reality, a modified questions stays similarly provocative: why are these movies so frequent and why do people adore watching them?