I see your point, Cokoki, but I still think he's bad news. It's one thing to date a guy if you know he's getting a divorce. It's quite another matter if he doesn't tell you at all. If she hadn't found out, when exactly would he have told her? That's a huge thing to forget to mention. Also, isn't that how married guys usually string the "other woman" along, "really, we can get married as soon as my divorce is final. It's just taking longer than I expected." In this case, he's pretending to be happily married as long as his mom is alive? That could be years. He seems like a nice guy, but there are other, single, fish in the sea.
I'm a happily married guy, so maybe it's hard for me to relate to this situation.
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