Cisely ...


I have seen the movie plenty of times, every time I see is playing I just have to see it! Only problem is just that Cesily is so annoying: she's a rude,spoiled brat who thinks she is smarter than her mother. She talks back, rolls her eyes, blatantly disobeys her, stops talking to her mother, hits on her father, goes nuts when she gets her period. I get all the other characters and why they are that way, but I just can't my finger on. Please explain because every time I watch the movie she spoils the feeling for me.

Thank!!!!

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she is the only adolescent in the film. Makes perfect sense to me. Its a confusing period in her life and the attitude goes along with being a teenage woman. Any woman(and some men). can understand her character development. During this period in woman's life you're curious about the opposite sex, you're moody, hormones are raging, and thats the reason why she feels as if she knows more than her mother.i remember talking back to my mom; thinking i know more; still do.just turned twenty. You cant help it. its hormones. Im sure every woman can relate to it.

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Yeah. I always thought that Cicely was acting bitchy. But,it's just that she's growing into a woman. And some of her characteristics are normal. But,the talking back,disobedience,and all that stuff is so unneccessary for her. She ought to know better.

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IMO I think Cicely was normal in a sense that a that time in our lives we were all a little abnormal ( in all intents and purposes) After watching the movie the last time I got a feeling ( I may be off base) that Cicely had a little bit of the this thing called the Oedipus Complex (Freud) going on.I went on Wikepedia to look it up in better depth.
It stated... It can be seen from this model that Freud's writings on the Oedipus complex in females date primarily from his later writings, of the 1920s and 1930s. He believed that the Oedipal wishes in females are initially homosexual desires for the mother, and in 1925, raised the question of how females later abandon this desire for their mother, and shift their sexual desires to their fathers (Appignanesisi & Forrester, 1992).
To me this explains Cicely's resentment towards her mother, becuase she probally felt she phychologically she could of did a better job of being his wife than her mother was to him.....I dunno. I'm just a overeaching teen who loves movies :?

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Yeac Cisely didn't have the Oedipus Complex, she had somethng like it, but I just think it's called the Electra Complex when a girl is attracted to her father.

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although she is rude to her mother she makes every attempt at being just like her if you don't notice. she cuts her hair short just like her mother's, waits up late for him (this is what you expect the wife to do), etc. this is probably why she has so many problems with her mother. she went crazy when she got her period because she felt that she would no longer be her daddy's "little girl"

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I can understand Cisely. For one, talking back and thinking you know more than BOTH your parents is normal at that age. Im 18 and I still do it -_- I was the same way at 11 and 12. Its normal. And so is the father thing. ESPECIALLY in a situation where a mother and father are at war. Children take sides. Cisely took her father's side and so did I. Something psychological happens here. She didnt think her mother was showing her father the type of love he deserved so she took it upon herself subconciously. I was the same way. I only just realized that a year ago. Dont get me wrong, I never hit on my father. But I can relate to her position and this is probably the reason I and people in the same position have a thing for fatherly types.

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Yeah, but---and not saying this didn't or couldn't have happened to you StantonIsKewl or that you can't relate---but I thought that girls and boys are supposed to grow out of that Oedipus/Electra complex at like four or something? I read somewhere that it occurs early on in the childhood.

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Cant believe everything you read. Besides, these things usually happen when there is a feud between parents. And my brother was the same way by the way. My poor mom -_-

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I agree with some of you. I think Cicely was acting out because her mother was not doing what she was suppose to do as a wife. Why did Cisely took it upon herself to act like her mother - maybe she was attracted to her father, and or she had the Oedipus/Electra complex.

Is there a complex for 2 gay brothers liking each other? just curious.

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I find Cicely to be an appealing character. She has that mid-teen brattiness but a tender heart.

I like the part where she sees her siblings eavesdropping, puts her nose in the air and saying, "I'm telling."

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I can't say that I liked or disliked Cecily's character, but I can say that her character was essential to the story. She didn't annoy me. She fascinated me. All of her actions made me wonder what was really behind them. In the end she is still somewhat of a mystery.

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I liked Cisely's character. She was well-portrayed as a teenage girl who has all the usual emotional turmoil that goes with the age but also deeply confused over her feelings towards her father (who she probably had inklings was cheating on her mother).


"I always pretend to root for Gryffindors but, secretly, I love my Slytherin boys."~ Karen, W&G

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Honestly, I understand how Cisely acted. Her parents are forever fighting and there are HUGE rumors going around town that her father is sleeping in other women...those actions usually lead to divorce. Now I've never had to deal with my parents doing that but I've learned that when things are going on that path the kids don't want either parent to leave them. Cisely probably thought that her mom wasn't doing a good job @ loving her husband ((as some have stated)) or why else would he be sleeping with other women? So she felt she need to pick up the slack && "give him what he needed" so that he wouldn't leave them. I dont think it has anything to do with any psychological Freud stuff. It was stated a million times how much she cared for her father && she didn't want him to leave...so what else to do than to pick up the "slack" of your mother???

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Cicely's behaviour is directly related to the dynamic of her father's philandering/womanizing. In her phyche, she blames herself and projects the blame onto her mother. She loves her mother and her father, but it is easier to blame her mother for her father's infidelities; rather than blame herself or her father. She projects the hate and blame to her mother, who loves her unconditionally. Also, Cicely was pubescent. Her sexuality was emerging and the infidelities of her father, her parents strained and confusing relationship, and her father's flirtatious demeanor confused her.

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Cisely was a true to life teenager rarely showcased on film and tv. I loved her, the only problem is the actress may have been wrong though. Meagon was miscast, Brandy Norwood would have made a much better choice for the role. She would have soften Cisely enough to really affect to generate sympathy from the audience.

Why am I so good at playing bitches? I think it’s because I’m not a bitch.-Bette Davis

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