Do colleges really have a policy like this?
I was just wondering. It would make sense really. I mean if your roommate did commit suicide it would have an effect on you, so you probably would have trouble studying. Anyone know?
shareI was just wondering. It would make sense really. I mean if your roommate did commit suicide it would have an effect on you, so you probably would have trouble studying. Anyone know?
shareYes, I know that the University of Kansas has this policy (or at least used to in the 80's).
shareUrban myth:
http://www.snopes.com/college/admin/suicide.asp
I checked out the link and if you read further, you'll see that colleges do, in fact, have version of this policy enacted.
shareActually, if you read CORRECTLY no college or university has ever had this policy.
shareAgain, from the website, correctly, the claim that is a myth is that a student whose roommate commits suicide automatically receives a 4.0 grade point average for the current school term. Yes, it is correctly a myth that not all schools give roommates of students who commit suicide a ‘free pass’ for that semester, but some do. Usually, it is for the roommates death in general, for example, after a long illness, a car accident, or murder (except if by the roommate).
shareshadowhead, i don't think you're reading the snopes article correctly. It says while some colleges may give so bereavment exceptions (such as extensions) but no college will automatically give you a good grade. It wouldn't make sense as the student would then go on to a advanced class or the workforce and not the basics.
shareMaybe so; my only point in my original post was to answer the question whether any schools had this type of policy, and the school I went to had such a policy.
shareNo school has ever had the policy of giving a roommate automatic 4.0, including the University of Kansas. No one has ever come forth from any institution proving this policy exists or existed. What happens is that people hear second hand about a supposed policy, then remember one existed at their school (or a friend's school, etc.) when it actually did not. Urban legend. Always has been.
shareAt my college, they'll let you wipe the slate for the semester and start over next semester or even up to 4 years (i think) from that semester, no questions asked.. That's about as charitable as they get.
shareNah man it's true. It happened to my friend at West Iloata College. He got a passing grade because of what ocurred. His best friend swallowed 30 sleeping tablets and a bottle of Jack Daniels and died.
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Isn't true at all. My roommate spent several weeks on suicide watch after attempting to kill herself several times. Then she actually did, I found her dead in our room, and the college didn't change my GPA. So anybody who tells you it's true is a liar.
sharethat's at YOUR school. my school DOES have that policy.
sharemy uni does, we also get a week long break in october because my school has a certain suicide rate
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Like I said, anybody who says it is true is a liar. So, YOUR a liar. And THANKS for BEING so SENSITIVE and ADDING CAPITOLS to YOUR REPLY. IT MADE ME FEEL LIKE SOMEBODY OUT THERE REALLY UNDERSTANDS WHAT IT'S LIKE TO FIND A DEAD PERSON IN YOUR ROOM.
shareIf your looking for sympathy you probably should be on this site.
shareur full of it dood. Many schools have the "Clean Slate" or "4.0GPA" policy. Jusk ask them.
shareYour school does not have the policy that you get a 4.0 if your roommate dies. No one has ever provided written documentation of this anywhere because...it...does...not...exist. Just because you hear about it doesn't mean it exists.
shareOriginally posted by piggymad:
it makes sense but if you passed because of it i.e. wudda failed regaurdlyess of it happeneding you would feel guilty, cus u'd be slighlty thankful for their death
Hahaha, you beat me to it. The sad thing is, that person probably did go to college. The standards are so low now, you can get away with pretty much anything. They don't even teach spelling in schools anymore because of spellchecker.
shareNot true, but an urban myth on practically every college campus across America. It's amazing how many people say "it's true at my school" but cannot offer written proof of the supposed "policy." Or, others state "my friend...." which in reality, is always a friend of a friend - and we all know where this leads (this is how urban legends end up lasting decades).
Remember, the policy in the movie (and contained in the urban myths) is "all As if your roommate commits suicide". Most colleges have SOME policy of letting you drop some courses or all of your courses if you endure some major problem during a semester like a significant family death, or your own personal major mental health problem. Some professors may even ease up or allow you take an incomplete. So if your roommate committed suicide this theoretically could be considered a hardship. But believe you me, you won't be given straight As.
Passing grade- yes (in some cases)
As in exams- no
No doubt, I want a doctor who passed purely because his roommate died..durp
lol
To reiterate your comment, anybody care to post a link to any Uni with this policy? Or post the policy which should be in your student handbook right now?
You wouldn´t become a doctor because your roommate died. Because the person would only receive a 4.0 for one semester. If they didn´t have what it takes to be a doctor, they would still flunk out because they would do poorly in all of the other semesters (i.e. you don´t become a doctor just by getting good grades for one semester).
shareI really doubt any schools have hard rules regulating what grades you get if your roommate commits suicide. Why would that need to be something that is put in writing in the schools official policies?
That said, most would probably work with you to help figure something out if you were close with your roommate or very distrubed by them committing suicide. Most likely that would be in the form of giving you counseling to help work through it. Maybe they would help talk to your professors to get time extensions on projects or tests, but I don't see why they would just give a free ride for the rest of the semester.
Lots of students lose close family members like parents and siblings and grandparents while in college though and don't get special treatment, so I have a hard time believing that they would give a lot of special privileges to someone who lost a random roommate that they probably havent know long.