Two women ruined Jude in two different ways. **spoiler**
Both women are rebellious toward society. The rebellious attitudes betrayed Jude. One through deceit and the other through tease.
ARABELLA:
The ruin was obvious. She deserted the marriage that was a deception toward Jude that she was pregnant. Jude doesn't really love her anyway. Eventually she did have Jude's child later, and that child killed all of Jude's children.
SUE:
Sue ruined Jude because Jude loved her. She gave Jude many tease that hurt Jude towards the end. She refused to accept the importance of marriage and would not care for the piece of paper, the license. Subsequently not offically married, they were looked down upon by society. After the crisis of children's death, she would not stay by Jude's side despite their love for each other.
Which women's betrayal towards Jude do you think is more devastating to his downfall?