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I'm surprised by how few posts there are here, but I was personally blown away by Infinity. I loved the slow pace, which was completely appropriate for the story. But then I've always liked films that take their time to tell the story.

The acting was great, and all the dialogue and relationships between the characters were realistic and poignant. I don't understand why reviews have put Matthew Broderick down for "under-acting" when Arline died. Would they have rather him burst into tears as soon as she did? That would've been wrong, because that wasn't how it happened. Richard Feynman himself mentioned in "Surely You're Joking, Mr Feynman" that he didn't cry when she died ("I wasn't delighted, but I didn't feel terribly upset, perhaps because I had known for seven years that something like this was going to happen.") and did not cry for months after until he saw some dresses in a department store window that he thought Arline would've liked. And I thought the way Matthew played it was very much in character: it was a sort of intellectual mourning.

I really hope Matthew Broderick will give directing another shot. I really enjoyed the movie.

I'm a bit confused as to why the same red dress would still be in the shop window after all those years, though?

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It was not the same red dress. It was a similar red dress, but not the same one. It just reminded him of the dress she liked in the window.

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Ah, that makes sense! I thought it looked different, thanks.

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I agree that Matthew Broderick's acting was good in this movie. I think his acting when his wife died was right on. From Feynman's books it seems that was the way he reacted. Having lost people dear to me I know people have different reactions. He says in "surely you're joking mister Feynman" that he didn't cry till he saw a dress in a window that he thought his wife might like. They should do a movie about his entire life. He was a very interesting person.

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I too liked this movie. Check out Gleik's (?) book "Genius" for a bio of Feynmann. He really was something else.

As far as the red dress in the window, I thought by then Feynmann had returned to New Mexico and it had taken all those years for East Coast fashions to get that far out. :)

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I was actually quite disappointed in the acting of the movie, but in a different way. The usual charge that he underacts her death is indeed silly, as you have pointed out. But I think that his acting as a whole, insofar as it is supposed to refer to the real Richard Feynman, seems pretty awful to me. Broderick seemed to desire to portray him as a quiet, reserved, almost awkward type of a person. Yet anyone who has actually seen Richard Feynman talk or lecture wonders if this interpretation is correct. Even just by reading his memoirs, Richard Feynman is seen to be someone excited about life and learning about the world, often in a very outgoing way. He had a unique personality in that he was a serious great thinker and hard worker, while at the same time often engaging in ridiculous antics with a profound sense of excitement. This is probably more exaggerated later in his life, but it seems to be true of him even when he was younger. Consider all of his stories about Los Alamos, from the censorship of his letters to his safe cracking, and you can understand this aspect of him.

So, in saying that the acting isn't very good, I mean that Broderick simply didn't interpret his character in a way that seems sufficient to me. Even Arquette's performance seems to suffer from a similar problem. Arlene comes off as being sort of dopey in comparison to the way Feynman himself talks about her. She hardly feels inspiring in this movie in the way she seems to have been.

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After more viewings, I think I agree with some of the things you mentioned nm4490. You're right, in his books, he does seem to come off as a more extroverted character, and less awkward.
I think Matthew Broderick chose to take a slightly different path in displaying it though. He comes off as more mischievous and impish (I especially loved the scene where he was trying to point out the hole in their security).
And from Feynman's books, I get a sense that he is more sensitive to people's feelings than he might've liked to admit. It seemed like he had some insecurities, but he did a damn good job of masking them. And certainly, with the focus of the film being on his relationship with Arlene, it seems sensible to portray the more sensitive side of Richard Feynman. I can imagine him to have been a very different person when he was with Arlene, even from the way Richard Feynman spoke in interviews. He's very playful with most topics, but he handles the more sensitive subjects with the utmost care.

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and remember, Feynman himself stated that he used to be an awkward type of person when he was younger (think it's in one of the earlier stories in surely you're joking). So such an interpretation might not be totally off the scale either...

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I met Richard Feynman back when he was a professor at Caltech (probably around 1980 or so) -- we had him as a dinner guest at our student house. He was quite personable and regaled us with stories about his practical jokes at Los Alamos, about his painting and his defending of a local Pasadena 'bordello' (he had sold them an original painting, and when the town was trying to get it shut down, the bordello asked him to speak for them to help keep them open). He also was known to participate in Caltech dramatic presentations where he often would play the bongos, he had his own art show at the small campus art museum, and he taught an unofficial/informal class on lockpicking and safe cracking. This was a few years before he died of cancer.

I was unlucky enough to just miss taking freshman and sophomore physics from him. He loved teaching the introductory classes. When I was a Freshman, he taught Sophomore Physics, and he switched to Freshman Physics when I became a sophomore (darn it!).

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Damn - you're still really lucky. I'm jealous.

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I enjoyed your post liberalis! This was a sweet and tender love story not for all tastes I'm sad to say. The low rating was disappointing and more worthy of an 8.5 or higher. Famed critic Roger Ebert loved it!

I especially liked your description of the scene when Arline dies- "Would they have rather him burst into tears as soon as she died? That would've been wrong, because that wasn't how it happened." Right on the button! Mr. Feynman's mind worked differently then yours and mine.......he was a brilliant scientist and a realist and would be out of character if he burst into tears. I believe he felt a feeling of relief that this inevitable event was finally over, her suffering, and his fears, although he did feel a sense of deep remorse.

At the end when he saw that similar red dress his human emotions took over and he weeped unashamedly . I too had tears at this very sad and emotional scene.

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I know this is an old thread, but I just have to say, upon seeing the ending of this movie, I cried for an embarassingly long time. We watched it before bed, turned the TV off, and went to bed. I was still crying over this scene, sobbing in my bed. I was afraid my husband was thinking I was crazy. I don't know why it affected me the way it did - maybe I was having a rough day, maybe Broderick's performance was perfection... I don't know - I just remember having that reaction. I watched this movie maybe 5 or so years ago.

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Yes, it may be an old post but the sadness of this scene is still firmly planted in my mind. I would love to see this film again. Very sweet story......
no car chases, explosions, or foul language........I miss that in todays movies!

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This is a beautiful movie. Quiet, intelligent script, good cast and a wonderful job by Broderick in a director role, his first one. Another sensitive and poignant portrayal by Broderick that is not fully recognized or appreciated.

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I agree that there ought to be more posts here; This small, understated film deserves more attention. I came across this today unexpectedly and really enjoyed this film. I admired Arline for her interest in her husband's work despite not understanding it and I admired Richard for explaining it to her without being overly "smart" about it (The olives he used to illustrate this were a nice touch). To combine science and romance into one story is no easy feat to pull off and both Matthew Broderick and Patricia Arquette's performances were wonderful. The pacing was slow, but so were the times they lived in. Long distance travel was usually done by train, phone calls were connected by operators, news was shared by radio, fashion took years to spread westward. It's doubtful a love story of this type could exist in today's fast-paced world, I commend both Matthew and Patricia for their subtle treatment of the material.

"Everything they do is so dramatic and flamboyant. It just makes me want to set myself on fire!"

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I would like to see this film again.....Could you please let me know where you saw it?

Thanks!

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I know this is six years after this post, but I just wanted to say that the end where he begins crying when he sees the dress made me cry for about a half hour. We went to bed after watching it and I was still crying! I don't know what was with me that day, why I was so sensitive to that, but I'm sure that speaks in part to Broderick's acting.

I don't remember much about the movie, truth be known - just the Mobius strip, the hitchhiking, and the dress at the end of the movie. And that I cried for an inordinately long time after the end. Huh.

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I thought this movie was about richard feynman ??? instead, it was about some arline chick.

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