Are any gay men offended by this film?

Nope. This doesn't represent every gay man :)

my best friend is a gay man and he loves this movie. isn't offended at all. he's not very feminine either.

Sometimes I doubt your commitment to Sparkle Motion!

Yes.


I was similarly offended by "Will & Grace" but I am in the minority, on both.

Quite some time ago I had on 'The Birdcage' while doing some housework when a gay friend of mine came by to give my boyfriend at the time a ride to work. When he saw what was playing on my TV he was like; 'Why the hell do you own this crap?' He then explained to me why he was extremely offended by the film and it's over the top portrayal of gay life. When they left I remember him yelling 'Bye Raina, enjoy your big fat gay movie!' It was a humorous exchange on both our parts but I always think of that when I rewatch it.

"Living our maggot lives, dreaming of becoming flies."

The Birdcage is a movie about gay people for straight people. It reassures them that those silly gays just want to dance and sing and have fun.
The gays are harmless. A simple folk. They don't want to do anything serious like lawyers, doctors and engineers. The only want to work in the entertainment and hospitality industries.

As a straight man I can see why a gay person might be offended by this film. It certainly trades in stereotypes. But you need to consider it in the context of its time--and even more so, the original French film which came out in the 1970s. Back then, it was unusual for a movie to feature openly gay protagonists, to make them unabashedly sympathetic, and to depict a homophobic politician as a ridiculous clown. By the 1990s when the American remake came out this wasn't quite as revolutionary but still was ahead of most other Hollywood treatments of the subject.

I will say one thing about the remake: I had the subtle feeling that Robin Williams was slightly uncomfortable in the role. He had done camp-gay routines before in his standup, and I suspect that's how he wanted to approach this material--unfortunately for him, the movie also demanded that he portray his character as a human being in a loving (if exasperated) relationship with his long-time partner. The original movie made that relationship believable; the remake, not so much.

No. I think it's hilarious!

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I'm not offended about swishy men, I'm secure in my manhood. I like men but The Birdcage is a comedy of errors, it's easy to play up the stereotypes and go for the cheap laughs