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Generation Xers are a bunch of cry babies.


I'm from Generation Y and I have to say that Generation X is full of entitled cry babies. They came of age in a time of peace and prosperity. They left high school without concerns of international terrorism with asymmetrical warfare, they left college to enter a booming economy, the Cold War was winding down, and MTV still played music. Despite the good times, they are so cynical and whinny like a child who can't get a cherry on top of his sundae.

Generation Y has had to deal with two seemingly endless wars, the worst economic crisis since the great depression, a horrible job market for new graduates, and truly pitiful television programing. And yet, through it all, Generation Y is optimistic and fiscally responsible. Unlike the older folks who decided to live beyond their means.

I digress. Today I watched this movie for the first time and I actually connected with Ben Stiller's character, despite not being of a fan of actor. He wasn't trying to be pseudo-intellectual, he was just trying to overcome his own social awkwardness. Michael had good intentions, but just couldn't come through. Lelanie was right to tell Troy that he was on the path to "Loserville". In reality, Troy would have been placed in the "Friend Zone". Michael may not have been right for Lelanie, but at least he had the decency refrain from being judgmental.

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Oh no! Anything besides "pitiful television programming". Gen Y is just as intolerable, just as entitled, and just as whiny.

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Generation Y is fiscally responsible? In what alternate universe?! I think you must be very sheltered if you think Gen Y is anything more than a bunch of whiny, entitled jerks with terrible taste in movies, music, television, and fashion. Get over yourself.

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Basically every Western person since the dawn of the middle class is an over privileged self absorbed empty shell. Most people live off less than $1 a day (in terms of US buying power) and are lucky to get water or food a few days a week and even then it is unclean and may kill them. We are all entitled spoiled shallow selfish children, especially those like the OP who whine about how "bad" their generation, in the midst of such unparalleled affluence, has it, even in "bad" times. There are literally billions of people who wish they could live in the US unemployed and in western "poverty" where unemployment is only 20% (in real terms) and you might only make 30k a year and have to live in a small house with a econo used car. Awww, how tough. Grow up OP, you're worse than the people you claim superiority over.

Btw, I'm an upper middle class American but at least I realize just how lucky I am and how I don't truly have any real problems. I also live well below my means (so in a lower middle class existence) so I can give to aid and social/political causes instead of buying a new 80k car or 700k house I don't need.

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Thanks for your post arete 1 and I agree completely. I'm Gen Y, but I like this movie and the reason why it resonated with me is because the story parallels what we're experiencing here in the Western world today. I find I grew less frustrated with the situation when I could accept that my life is okay and I don't have to have a professional career or always know what's ahead of me, and I don't have to be anything but grateful for what I have and take better opportunities whenever I have the chance.

There's so much pressure to "be something" after college, and that pressure can be paralyzing.

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"Btw, I'm an upper middle class American but at least I realize just how lucky I am and how I don't truly have any real problems. I also live well below my means (so in a lower middle class existence) so I can give to aid and social/political causes instead of buying a new 80k car or 700k house I don't need"

Well, aren't you just amazing. Look everyone, look at how amazing this person is! Wow, if only we could all be like this person, and realize that even though this person is an upper-middle class american in a world where billions are going through a *beep* time. He has the audaci-er, the wisdom, yes, the wisdom, to tell you that you should be happy with whatever you have. So long as you aren't one of said starving brown/asian/european people in the billions. I mean c'mon!

Telling you how you should feel about your life while admitting that you are far more well-to-do than the people you are bitching to is the truest form of arroga-er enlightenment!

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Nice post
except you BTW is a bit gauche and uncouth


I can't hear you over the volume of my hair.

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I'm from Generation Y myself but you sound like a crotchey old coot. I find it a bit ironic that you slam Gen Xers for being crybabies when our very own generation has the same kind of whiny, irritating putzes. They just call them hipsters now. Same upper/middle young adults bemoaning about whatever who wear tacky, ill-fitting overpriced clothes, like stupid things in an effort to be "ironic" and listen to sh*tastic music. If you're gonna bitch about Gen Xers, you may as well thrown in a very large part of our own generation in there as well because they act the same, just with tighter pants and even doofier haircuts.

And what's this crap about Generation Yers being optimistic? Your whole post is full of nothing but whine which blows your optimistic theory out the damn window. And fiscally responsible? What the hell? Do you know how many people from our awesome generation continually spit out children they can't afford? They're usually the first people to line up to buy the new iPhone or iPad! I know two couples who are in their 30s who both lost their homes recently - not because of high interest rates or anything relating to the economy - both were so caught up in blowing money they didn't have on things like vacations to Vegas and the newest Kindles that they didn't bother paying the taxes on their homes. Two couples. From OUR generation. That's not an anomaly either - plenty of Gen Yers are fiscally retarded.

Every (read EVERY) generation has their good points and their bad points. For whatever reason, you've seemed to glob on to the good points of our generation and think every generation that came before us sucks. You're entitled to your opinion but you should at least research a bit and get outside your wee circle of friends before you make such a moronic generalization about a huge group of people.

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Wah wah wah.

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To the OP:

In the late 60's/early 70's, people born of the generation before were saying the same things about the hippie baby boomers that you're saying about gen-x-ers. It's always the same.

And another thing, everything is relative. Don't forget that. Ever hear "one man's blessing is another man's burden"?

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You shouldn't generalise too much.

I was born 1966 and is a generation X and was coming of age during the cold war. Then it was nothing to be cry baby about. Us who was born in the last half of the 60s was growing up with the cold war until we were 20-24 years old.
It was quite different for those born in the last half of the 70s who also are generation X.

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The difference is that we raised ourselves when mom & dad were at work. Gen Y had their parents around for them. You guys weren't doing your laundry or cooking your own food after school. You weren't latchkey kids.

And the endless wars & the economic crisis, you can blame that on our parent's not on Gen X. You're forgetting that we got laid off & had to start over fresh while you were graduating.

And sure, Y is more optimistic, also less capable of teaching themselves & so self absorbed that they can't find Latin America on a map. It is easy to be optimistic when your life doesn't extend too far from selfies & social networking.

And the best part is the "Ohhhh someone made fun of me," that constantly comes out of Gen Y. Well guess what, cry all you want about X, we got to hear mom & dad call us lazy...while we were raising ourselves. Life isn't fair, Y, so stop crying every time you hear something mean. Hate to wake you up, but the world doesn't revolve around you.

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I'm part of Gen Y and both my parents worked full time. I was cooking, cleaning and doing my laundry at a young age. Big difference between older and younger Gen Y. I didn't grow up with social network or cell phones. Never had a myspace or Facebook page. My point is it's silly to label a whole generation.

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WE are cry babies, but you come here, to a movie forum, about a GenX movie, to whine about GenX.

You know you are not going to get trophy from me, GenX had to EARN their trophies no handing them out to every pansy who can pout & produce tears.

Peace and prosperity?


Personally I feel generational labels are passe after birth control was invented -as we don't have specific *booms* anymore. Also, I am not going to belittle the tolls that those two wars have taken on any generation-its been too much.
Especially when my generation was the first out the door/boots on the ground in the Gulf War- Operation Dessert Storm 90-91.

-Vietnam War 55-75-sine the included years for GenX are 1960-81 you do see the overlap do you not?

-Cold war 47-91- depending on when you were born 1960-1981 in the GenX spectrum, it affected us deeply we nearly came to annihilation in The Cuban Missile Crisis & again in 1983, we had duck and tuck drills during school. We were brainwashed in school about Communism & the Russians- how they hated us for our freedom, how the US was the greatest....-most of us bought into this propaganda.

-Serious Scuffles in Panama, Beruit, and Libya in late 80s

- The Recession? Long lines for gas-we used to pack like we were going on a trip across country because we were going to sit in the car for 4 hours, you were only allowed to fill up on certain days of the week and the lines were ridiculous.

-We were latchkey kids-in order to stay above water/middle class both of our parents had to work leaving us alone in the empty house every afternoon after school. Which reinforced our loner tendencies.

-Look up crack epidemic that was eating our inner cities while you are at that look up how the coke came into the country-Miami was like the wild west

-Times Square wasn't a family friendly Disneyland but a seedy place for dime peep shows and prostitutes.

-We had to pay for our music-and then repay when the album was scratched or warped or the tape malfunctioned or mysteriously got eaten by your cars tape player. Also, we had to buy a whole album for one song.

-Iran hostage crisis.

-We had 3 freakin' channels (well a few more with UHF as children)

-Was almost an adult when the internet came along and had to adapt to it social media and everything else or risk losing our jobs differently while computers and cell phone made many jobs null and void.

and...and...and... if that were not enough the cherry on the Sunday is that someone went and flipped timelines on many GenXers and while we remember the Bernstein Bears, we now have to spell it Bernstain while being told it was never "stein"

How is that for being kookoo for cocca puffs?

Today I watched this movie for the first time and I actually connected with Ben Stiller's character, despite not being of a fan of actor. He wasn't trying to be pseudo-intellectual, he was just trying to overcome his own social awkwardness. Michael had good intentions, but just couldn't come through.


When you grow up, and re-watch the movies of your youth, you identify with different characters because you have had personal growth and changed-developed cognitive thinking. Although I love the movie, its clear that Ben Stiller's character was the one to place your bets with.



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No participation trophy for the OP, you cracked me up.

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Don't forget AIDS. I was born in 1963, so in high school had a few years of not worrying about dying from sex, but by the time I was ready to start dating to find a wife, AIDS was in full scare mode.

Don't forget Affirmative Action. Maybe if you were a woman or a minority you were lucky, but I'm a white male, so just when I was entering career age, doors were slamming everywhere. The federal government mandated that by 1990 all large companies and government departments had to have internal demographics matching the country's demographic. This effectively meant that I could not be hired unless they could not find a woman or minority fill it. Fortunately I was in computer science in the 1980s so managed to find work easily. Most of my white male friends had to wait tables or do some other *beep* job to pay off their student loan. BTW we were the first generation that had to pay tuition to go to state university - all previous generations could go for free or a nominal fee.

Don't forget interest rates. Just when I was ready to buy a house or take out a car loan, the base interest rate was 15%! It stayed over 10% for many years, yet savings interest rates were much lower of course.

And last but certainly not least - don't forget child abuse. In the 1960s and 1970s when I was a child, I was beaten hard and often for little to no reason by a psychotic stepfather, which back then was perfectly legal. He also used to beat the *beep* out of my mother, but got away with it because it was tolerated back then. Several friends were sexually molested by their priests/and or scout leaders or gym teachers or whoever. Paedophiles were all over the place.

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I am sorry that happened to you.


AIDS putting "wanna be" wild sluts like me in check for decades now...if only I were born a decade earlier right? No I shouldn't be so flip about it but yea you are certainly right.

This SOLs /Standard of Learning that the younger generation is taught to instead of learning critical thinking shows in their posts (and essay papers). Memorize don't learn


Oh & yep I know the back end of a belt and a wooden spoon and sometimes a hand to the face. I am not a violent person from it and it taught me to respect elders and to work had.


I dreamt of a roaring river and a woman that was a fish. Dead she drifted, with red tears...

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What is your opinion of Affirmative Action?

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