'One Doesn't Talk of Such Things' Line Makes Me Sad...
Hi -
When Jo comes home from New York and sees that Meg is expecting twins, she's naturally thrilled.
When Jo asks, "Why didn't you tell me?", Meg just quietly replies, "One doesn't talk of such things."
I realize the character of Meg is prim and demure by nature - early in the film she even (mildly) criticizes her own mother for mentioning corsets to John.
But it makes me sad to think that a married woman in 1860's U.S. would not feel comfortable even writing to her own sister in a private letter, "There will soon be an addition to our family."
Another novel which does an an excellent job recounting the social difficulties faced by pregnant women (even married) is "Gone With the Wind". Melanie is embarrased beyond speech when Rhett wants her to get out of increasingly dangerous Atlanta and asks her, "You are going to have a baby, are you not?"
Scarlett is fiercely proud and rejects many social customs she finds ridiculous, such as the idea that women should stay home whenever financially possible instead of trying to be successful in business. And even she is humiliated to see Ashley when she has to go home unexpectedly for her father's funeral and is visibly pregnant with Frank's (her husband's) child. She's also mortified when she's upset in her buggy and has morning sickness in front of Rhett.
This is the sort of line that highlights social mores that make me glad I am living in today's day and age. Anyone else?
"What person who is nothing like me are you saying that to?" - House