So did Valerie actually love Jay?
I'm rewatching the whole series for the first time in years, and it now occurs to me that it's a bit unclear whether Valerie, in the pilot episode, really was just using Jay for a good review or loved him but was too hurt (and a crazy actress, like Jeremy warned) to stay with him.
On the one hand, her saying he was ugly and short wasn't very loving, but this show loved to get in jabs at Jay's appearance. Plus, like I said, that could have just been her being a temperamental actress talking out of anger.
There weren't any red flags throughout their courtship that she was just using him, so what do people think?