Palaver


Sandra had exactly the right word for what Johnny was doing with his endless rambling and silly questions.

Noun. Prolonged and idle discussion.
Verb. To talk unnecessarily at length.

But what's the difference between that and small talk or most conversation? It's just useless chatter. I mean what purpose does it serve for a clerk to ask "how are you?" They don't expect a list of all your problems or a gratitude list. They just expect you to say "ok" or "not bad. How are you?" Empty and banal chatter. Probably they have a list of things they are allowed to say most places. They wouldn't ask "what do you do?" unless a customer started the conversation and talked about work. So, what is not "palaver" except silence?

Jesus said people will have to give an account of every idle word but most of what people say is just idle words serving no purpose, talking about themselves when no one cares, pretending to care by asking questions and feigning concern, putting people down or bragging how they spend money or how important they are.

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Talking about the weather, sports, celebrities, gossip, news, politics, religion, philosophy, movies,, music or art. How is one more or less palaver than the other? Jibber-jabber. Chatter. Palaver. Small talk. Repartee. Palaver. It's all the same, isn't it?

It's a subjective word too because if you are interested in the topics that Johnny or someone else discusses or just lonely - like Brian seemed to be - then it's not idle or unnecessary discourse. And why not say the words written in most books are palaver, serving no purpose, except killing time for a reader and making money for a publisher and writer? The term cuts both ways and we see Sandra can't even finish a complete thought she is so scatter-brained and mentally constipated.

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Was the irony intentional?

I don't love her.. She kicked me in the face!!

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What irony? Another thing I noticed is that Sandra had no context for making that statement because she had not witnessed Johnny's palaver - yet. She just came in after he had the sh!t kicked out of him. He wasn't very talkative, just moaning in pain. Maybe she was talking about Sebastian or one of the other women. I just saw the movie again months ago and noticed that. What is she referring to with the remark about palaver?

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British usage of the word 'palaver' means bother, or fuss. It is simpler if you have that context.

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