I'm an emotionally incontinent person so any emotional moment gets me crying!
This movie really gets to me because my sister is being really lame and shutting me and my parents out of her life because she has a big grudge about mistakes my parents have made and bad habits they have that have shaped her and me a certain way. It took a long time for her to properly verbalize all the mistakes she took issues with so it has been difficult for us to understand her point of view for a while, and it took a while for me to understand where she's coming from on certain points. She seems to be emotionally immature. My parents, (well mostly my dad: most of my sister's attacks are against our mom who is a very proud Irish woman and so this has really hit her in her gut) have tried to make amends with her, not fully understanding her grudges and she's still not talking to us. We're trying to work on a reconciliation with her through a counselor but the counselor seems to have problems with objectivity. We haven't heard from them in months. I haven't actually spoken to her in nearly 11 years. We've exchanged emails once but communication broke down because I said something she didn't like. I saw her once on the street but she didn't see me and it was really weird to see my sister and not even feel comfortable enough to say hi to her.
Anyway, when I watch this film, it makes me wish I could send her a copy of it and make her realize that she's wasting time. She needs to start to reconcile with us before something happens. I've told her in my letter that I don't know how I could ever get past this with her if she doesn't make peace with our parents. It's not just mom and dad she's hurting. It's not just her family she has divided it's mine as well. When they die, if no reconciliation has happened, I will be all alone and that scares me like you wouldn't believe.
So when Bob tells his parents they did nothing wrong, it was all him... man that really gets me. When his dad is shaving him, and they have that moment...oye. When the hospital bed arrives and his wife breaks down.
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