DID ANYONE NOTICE THAT ...
The first guy that Matt Dillon tries to set his ex-wife is a very thin and timid ( mama's boy )James Gandolfini. She has no desire to date him. if that was a few years later...he could of had her whacked.
A few years later she ( Annabella Sciorra )was one of Tony Soprano's mistresses. She winds up killing herself after Tony breaks it off with her. If she would have dated him back in the day ( when he wanted to )she wouldn't have had to resort to an adulterous relationship and eventually suicide.