SPOILER what did her mother whisper to Jude?

**SPOILER**
When the Grandmother was in the hospital after the falls down the stairs, I couldn't quite hear what her mother was saying to Jude. She seemed to be talking about leaving her husband (the one that jumped out the window?)and taking Jude away. Did she imply something was going on between Jude and her father? or what seemed to really anger Jude?