what does the title mean?


because i don't understand it.

does it have to do with ronald reagan and how he didn't even stop to address the issue or give a solution to it?

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i wish i knew for sure, but i think it's the gay community that has been played on, or maybe the doctors that always have a barrier to prevent them from doing the right thing.

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nevermind, i read the title "and the band it played on" wow
maybe its the doctors that wouldnt give up? they kept on trying

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It is a reference to the Titanic - the boat was sinking, people were dying, and the band played on.

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ya that makes sense

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You are all dumbasses! The title refers to Freddie Mercury of Queen who died of AIDS. Even after he discovered that he had the disease he continued to sing for Queen until he died.

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No you're the dumbass.

The title is in reference to a song with the same title. It relates to the indifference of an imminent danger. These are the lyrics.

Casey would waltz
With a strawberry blonde,
And the Band played on,
He'd glide 'cross the floor
With the girl he ador'd,
And the Band played on,
But his brain was so loaded,
It nearly exploded,
The poor girl would shake with alarm,
He'd ne'er leave the girl
With the strawberry curls,
And the band played on.

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WHo sang that song??

Was it Bert Sommer Jr?

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Actually the Titanic comment was dead-on, because it makes more sense. The band DID play on, even as the boat was sinking, because they were doomed and they knew it.

The band, being the people that suffered from the disease (including the author himself) played on, while the people that steered the boat (the medical community, Gallo, and others) caused the boat to sink. It has especially more significance, when you remember that more people died on the boat than had to... They did not fill all the boats before people started to die. The rich prevented the poor from boarding the boats, causing their deaths.

Money, and the hopes that homosexuality would be completely eradicated by this disease, are the reasons that this happened. Only when the people in charge realized that they themselves could be victim of it did they change their minds, and of course it was too late. The reason that AIDS is an epidemic is because people hate other people, groups of people, that they find undesirable. So the continuing misery of life on this planet continues, and WILL continue, far into the future.

And don't kid yourself... No matter who you are or what you are, you are at risk. People don't do this sh*t because of some fallacy of human nature... We do it because we LIKE it. We LIKE to watch people suffer and die. Even as we thump our Bibles and chant scripture as we do it, reassuring ourselves we're doing the right thing, trying to fool ourselves into believing that we're not just a bunch of monsters.

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how dare you call people dumbasses. this isnt a place for that, go somewhere else. the title is based upon the titanic who played on as the titanic went down. i remember they said that on the today show when they went on promoting it. so now go away

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Titanic refernce....'and the band played on' as everyone died...went to a memorial service for Randy Shilts (writer) and they used the same metaphor

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how dare you call people dumbasses. this isnt a place for that, go somewhere else. the title is based upon the titanic who played on as the titanic went down. i remember they said that on the today show when they went on promoting it. so now go away

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I think what the title, based on a catchy little song from the turn of the 19-20th century, was Shilts way of pointing out that while the little world that the homosexual community had built up in the 1970s was starting to crash and burn because of AIDS, the rest of the world went on it's merry way without regard or concern for "a handful of queers" who were the victims of the catastrophe. It's possible that the story of the band playing on while the Titanic was sinking and people knew that they were very likely going to die gave him the idea for the title.

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i agree with the Titanic method.... All the others dont make sense.


they wouldnt name it after a song....

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Hi...

In film classes...we were led to believe that the title "And the Band Played on..." is a reference to 'The Titanic'- where the band played happy/calming tunes as devistation and death was apparent.

Because of that, "And the band played on..." became a euphuism for things that mean 'no matter what catastophe, to divert attention and/or to keep minds diverted from said caststophe and certain death, the band plays on'.

Several popular references come up in pop music such as one that is posted here, and "The Temptations" famous 60's song of strife, "Ball of Confusion" which is now being used for the HBO series, "The Wire".

To know more about the author, follow this link:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randy_Shilts



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As has already been pointed out, it's a 1895 popular song title which refers to the fact that, in the face of catastrophe, "the band plays on" - life goes on without regards to the surrounding danger. While indeed the "band played on" on the deck of the sinking Titanic, there is no evidence that that particular song was played; in fact, the consensus is they played "Nearer My God to Thee". The theme is well-demonstrated in the film in the scene where closing the bathhouses in San Francisco was seen as "taking away the right to gay sexual freedom" despite the fact that they were instrumental in spreading the disease.

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-If you weren't gay
-If you weren't working in the medical field
-If you didn't have friends/relatives who were gay, addicts, hemophiliacs

the epidemic didn't figure into your life. It's amazing how little this made it into the papers/media (pre-internet days) until Rock Hudson, popular with the straight community, came out then died of the disease. Life went on and most unaffected people couldn't have cared less (and the band played on.)

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My dad was an Undertaker and they were definitely talking a lot about it back in 83-84 a few years before the Rock Hudson story.

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it's a 1895 popular song title which refers to the fact that, in the face of catastrophe, "the band plays on" - life goes on without regards to the surrounding danger.

Actually, the lyrics to the song have nothing whatsoever to do with any sort of catastrophe; it's a romantic ballad:

http://www.pdmusic.org/1800s/95tbpo.txt

That said, people tend to universally think what you just stated, that the "band" (or whoever is causing the band to play) is oblivious to some problem. But that's not the case in the actual song.

I think a more important reference, and the reason why the title of the book has so much resonance, is that it is a deliberate echo of that very first feature film which was openly about homosexuality, The Boys in the Band (1970). That echo, plus the common misperception about the classic song, created an instant recognition on the part of people who heard the title.
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I'm confused by the posters' responses here. I always thought the phrase "...and the band that played on" was always describing any group of people who are aware of the fact that a wrongdoing is being committed, and yet they decide to carry on with their lives and ignore the injustice as if it isn't even happening.


For example... if the sheriff of a town in the 1950s sees that mobs are often swarming a black people and attempting to lynch them, or constantly denying them entrance to their places of business, etc., and he and his police force do nothing about it for years and continue to move on as if it isn't even happening, they are officially "the band that played on."


That's what I always thought the phrase described. But you know what, after reading the posts here, I now cannot recall where the hell I (thought I) learned that from. I always thought "And the band that played on" described people or institutions that stand by while a wrongdoing or injustice is being committed. Did I miss something here? Or did I just make up my own meaning for the phrase as a child and it only carried on into adulthood..?


Weird..





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With metaphors, who knows for certain? What did the author of the original song mean with "his head was so loaded it nearly exploded?" With love? With coke (popular at that time)? He did end up marrying the girl... a good thing, one would think, yet "the band played on."

IIRC, the band on the Titanic played hymns during those final hours, but I wasn't there (though my kids would swear I was) so I don't know other than what I read.

It could have been a reference to "The Boys in the Band"; I never saw the movie and don't know what it's about (other than gay men.)

To me it's that life goes on... somewhat indifferently until the impending catastrophe touches you. Like building a house on a Florida beach, knowing that hurricanes happen, but not caring... until the hurricane blows your house away (like the Biblical metaphor of the man building his house on sand.)

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I know it's probably wrong, but I saw this on HBO during its original run, just after having seen "The Celluloid Closet", which features "The Boys in the Band" prominently. So for me, personally, the title referred to gayness as being like a brilliant song of a band and although AIDS was one of the worst things to ever affect mankind, as in the joi du vivre of the 1970 film, so the players in this movie carried on, "and the band played on"...if you will. Gay males kept up their brilliance in all walks of life, despite homophobia and a horrible disease. This kind of speaks to the innate nature of humanity and to LGBT people who will make the best of whatever life throughs at them. Whatever choice is there for any of us, after all?

At least there will be plenty implied.

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I myself wasn't sure whether the title meant that no one took any measures to stop the disease or whether it was an allusion to Titanic.
However in a 1987 article of the Washington Post, the writer of the book says:

"{The title of my book} "And the Band Played On" is simply a snappier way of saying "business as usual." Everyone responded with an ordinary pace to an extraordinary situation."

Here's the link: https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/lifestyle/wellness/1987/12/01/aids-and-prejudice-one-reporters-account-of-the-nations-response/dcc42d2b-3353-4b2e-b67f-8336fa51acfb/

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