What happened and why?
"Someday when you are ready, you might tell our family story. Only then will you understand what happened and why."
I've seen this movie many, many times. Most (if not all) people I've talked to about the movie identify with Norman. I identify with Paul. Years ago, a counselor of mine insisted I watch it and try to answer the question, "What happened and why?"
I have never been able to answer that question.
I know why my counselor wanted me to do that. She wanted me to realize that if I continued to behave like Paul, I was going to end up like Paul. That's not the point of this post.
I still want to understand what happened and why. Is there an answer to this question? I've pondered it for almost 20 years now, and I've got nothing.
If I could ask (old) Norman this question, what would he tell me?
Anyone? Anyone? share