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I do find it more than a little strange that Karen Cooper's children, as said in another post, have no contact with their aunt and uncle, into whose care they were given after forcibly being removed from the Micks' care (the "Peppers", in the movie), and they have no contact any more with the Micks, either! Is this ungrateful or what?? Yeah, forcing them away from the foster parents (yes, they did make some mistakes, granted, but the kids were happy, from what I've read) did a world of good---one child committed suicide in her teens and who knows what other mental harm was done to any of the others. Why they'd cut off communications with the foster parents and then, subsequently, the aunt and uncle, is beyond me. Of course, I don't know the "facts", but evidently, the highly-disturbed mother still has their attention. I guess a mother's a mother---even if she does stink at it! Just my opinion.......

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I know right, beetiesmom?! It seems strange that none of the grown children have any contact with their past caretakers, except their mom! The mom they had the most trouble with, and according to the stories the mom that *took* them away from a very loving foster home. Granted, the Micks never should have told them they could call them Mom or Dad or that they'd be together forever.
But by all accounts they loved those children deeply and fought very hard for them.
I guess I could see wanting to avoid the Micks' because it might be too painful...? Or the aunt/uncle if they just were different personalities and fought a lot. But it still seems rather bizarre to have no contact at all.



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Thank you, fiatlux-1; I was prepared, when I saw a response, to get my head handed to me on a platter. I very happy to see that someone agrees that it is disturbing that the grown children have severed contacts with people who loved them and just wanted to help. No doubt, there's more behind this, but I just can't help wondering if Cindy's suicide might have had something to do, at least in part, with having been viciously yanked out of the Micks' home, where (if we're to believe the story), they were wanted and taken excellent care of. Evidently, the Micks' marriage didn't survive the trauma of the family being ripped to shreds. I'm sorry for everyone----except the judicial system.

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I think calling them "ungrateful" is too easy. People move away from things that are hurtful. Maybe keeping in contact with their foster families is just too emotionally painful for them. Almost, like they want to forget that part of their lives. Yet they stay in contact with their mother because they feel obligated to. Because she's mentally ill and she's their mother. I think if she had been just a bad/abusive mother because she was a bad person and not mentally ill, it would have been easier for them to let her go. But that's not the case.

I know it's contradictory to not keep in contact with the "good" parents, but with the "bad" mother. But I can understand where such feelings/behavior might come from. I'd be willing to bet that if it weren't for feeling some kind of obligation to their mother, they'd completely cut off contact to everyone from their childhood.

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I had various opinions that were similar and different to what I read on here. I felt sorrow for Callie due to her illness and toward the end with the medication helping her it truly seemed she really did love her children but just was not a good caregiver to them. I felt the aunt and uncle did have the best intersts of the children and had it not been for Callies objections they would have been placed with them from the start. Some people on here comment about the Micks and in the movie I did see some of that where the kids were emotinally and mentally affected by the treatment of Patty which alienated them more and more agains their real mother which was unfair. The oldest one was hurt a lot however she didnt seem to understand that her mother had an illness that contributed greatly to that. She did at the end come to I think understand to a degree for she did wish her luck.

After seeing the movie tonight for the first time and not really seeing much of the beginning I am so curious about these 3 fathers. Were they at the beginning of the movie. I only looked up when I saw her with the last one who I think was the father of the baby boy for he was the one the Oldest told she would kill him if he hit her sister or any of them again and that is when he up and left with Callie chasing him saying doenst he love the baby.

Were all the fathers just low lifes. She really attracted the wrong kind of men. I didnt see anything mentioned about the fathers in the proceedings of placing these children yet it mentions in this article something about them needing to be contacted.

THis leads me to wonder if these fathers just were such low lifes they didnt care about their own biological children to want to know them and I wonder if now since the children have grown up if they have had any contact with these 3 fathers or known them in any way. I have not seen this mentioned ont he board.

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The beginning of the film does not show any of the other fathers. The one you saw was baby Jason's father. There is no mention of the other fathers in the movie.

I watched this film for the first time almost 20 years ago and it has affected my entire life. I am currently in the application process to adopt a child from foster care. All my life I have had the desire to give a child a loving home and mother.

I think that since the children were removed from the "Peppers", they were probably allowed very little contact with them, and i'm sure in time that little contact became no contact. I think over time the children lost contact with the "Peppers" completely since they didn't have the choice to see them after they were removed from that foster home. And conecting with them again as adults may have been difficult and the feelings they had towards the "Peppers" were gone.

I am glad to have more info on the true story behind this film, finally after all these years, I have always been curious and I wonder and hope that all the children are alright.

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