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Peter is a dangerous control freak, future wife abuser

posted 7 years ago by wiggity
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I know a control freak when I see one, and this son of a b*tch is one IN SPADES. Jeezus. How long have these two children even known each other? A few weeks? Maybe it's because I'm older than these people, but man alive. They jump into these relationships like changing clothes. This guy is baaaaad news, and it's just going to get worse. I hope by the end of the show she's out of there with this freak.

On a side note....has anyone noticed that Jenn looks like a guy in drag when she's doing the commentaries? She does! She has no upper lip, either. I liked her at first, but now I think she's showing signs of being an idiot that's man-dependent. I mean, she had a boyfriend back home, and within, what, days....she's latched on to Peter. Ugh. I don't know how old she is, but she looks older than most of these people.

[–] thelastthingyouneversee 7 years ago

Agree with everything you said! Some people were commenting on Real World's Instagram, calling Peter controlling and the like. So Peter himself gets on there and starts cussing people out, telling women they're ugly etc. And Jenn is commenting right alongside him, telling people they don't know him, not to judge her life, that they're happy together now that Real World is over blah blah. It was a pretty gross display. I mean, I get that editing sucks, but he told her that if she "keeps being bad" she can't live with him, and that she's "making him love her less" like WTF how can anyone defend that? Then her little tirade about how "she knows what mental abuse looks like and this isn't it" like OKAY girl obviously that past abuse just made you even more vulnerable to it, instead of wiser to the signs.

[–] tonymontana1121 7 years ago

She's a really sweet laid back lady so it's a dangerous combination. She will succumb to the control freak. When he eventually hits her she will say it's because he loves her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKcfINxi5_A

[–] Leave_it_to_Weaver 7 years ago

Peter is an absolute nutcase. The fact that Jenn thinks Peter isnt like her former abusive boyfriend says volumes. wow. Its unfortunate that he will physically hit her at some point and she might even think it is her fault. My young niece is going through something similar to this and you just have to let them figure it out for themselves because they just continue to believe that the abuser isnt that bad of a person. ugh.

[–] lonnie5 7 years ago

Pete is a roided loser who needs anger management classes. I also think it's a double standard though, cause if it was reversed and jen was the controlling one, there likely wouldn't be near as much discussion about it. Also Anna is verbally abusive herself, so she should look more into those searches for herself too.

[–] electronicoffee 7 years ago

There's absolute nothing wrong with the way Peter acts.
He's only reacted to the dumb vagina antics in the house.

Cause I ride like Kelly Bundy, Yo I keep that *beep* nasty~ (Spank Rock)

[–] wiggity 7 years ago

Anyone who thinks that the way he behaved is ok is probably just like him. Sorry.

[–] electronicoffee 7 years ago

So by you claiming that I could easily say you're probably some neofeminist cry wolf bitch who loves to over exaggerate and demonize men because your life is sad and empty. See how we can both make *beep* up?

Cause I ride like Kelly Bundy, Yo I keep that *beep* nasty~ (Spank Rock)

[–] wiggity 7 years ago

Yep.....just as I thought. Just like him.

[–] electronicoffee 7 years ago

LOL, zero evidence, and hey *beep* I was the VICTIM of an ACTUAL abusive relationship in the past so I think I know if someone's an abuser much more than you. Way to ASSume like a typical *beep* that I'm like an abuser just because I recognize his attitude and behavior as being someone with anger issues and NOT being an abuser. You're done. I win.

Cause I ride like Kelly Bundy, Yo I keep that *beep* nasty~ (Spank Rock)

[–] bosoxfan_131 7 years ago

I'm a guy and I know peter is abusive, don't even come at me either, peter is a POS. Remember real world skeletons when the nicest guy on the show threw a woman, but peter is incapable of doing so because you think he ONLY has anger issues? You high af, Peter wanted to know Ana tf out in the last episode.

[–] wiggity 7 years ago

I'm sorry, but he is a total abuser. And if you don't recognize the signs after claiming you were an actual victim, then you'll be one again. Because you CLEARLY don't understand that abuse can take many forms. So, good luck with that. You feckin' idiot. GFU.

[–] electronicoffee 7 years ago

No, he's not an abuser, even you just said 'there's signs' and if there's signs, that means not actual abuse has taken place. Way to destroy your own logic, dumbass. And I'm a lot more qualified to talk about the issue than you are clearly so shut the *beep* up because you don't know what you're talking about. I've experienced it, you have not.

Cause I ride like Kelly Bundy, Yo I keep that *beep* nasty~ (Spank Rock)

[–] wiggity 7 years ago

Are you stupid? Because you seem like it. It is downright nuts to claim someone who clearly demonstrates abusiveness is not, especially if you claim to have been through abuse yourself. I guess you didn't learn anything. If someone else's abusive behavior doesn't EXACTLY mirror what you claim to have experienced, then it's not abuse, right? Do yourself and the world a favor and google it, pally. Google just what, exactly, abuse is, and how it manifests itself in human relationships. Because you sound like a moron. Quite frankly, you demonstrate abusive qualities yourself. You come on to message boards and attack people because you get some kind of perverse personal pleasure from doing so. Troll. Some kind of payoff from anonymously sh!tting on people. That's f'd up. You're f'd up. Were you hit over the head with a stupid stick or did the abuse you claim to have experienced knock it into you? Hmmmmm.

I'll pray for you.

[–] electronicoffee 7 years ago

No, it's why you're *beep* retarded. Nothing he did was abusive. NOTHING. By you CLAIMING it was abusive, you are belittling and devaluing the experiences of REAL ABUSE VICTIMS, people like ME who have actually been in abusive relationships. You don't know what you're talking about. "You demonstrate abusive qualities yourself" Yeah *beep* you. More examples of why people like you cry wolf and overexaggerate everything to be a *beep* special snowflake. I'm not anonymous. I'm Rick Lopez. Check my twitter. Check my FB, you dumb whore. Sorry you're some knee jerk neofeminist who thinks every kind of insult or argument is 'abuse'. You're pathetic and you're the reason Hillary Clinton lost.

Cause I ride like Kelly Bundy, Yo I keep that *beep* nasty~ (Spank Rock)

[–] tbone382001 7 years ago

Wow your crazy! Just because your abuse was worse Peter is not abusive? When a man balls up and gets in a girls face screaming, that's abuse. Without security being around and others that's a scary situation for a girl. I'd bet everything I own that he has thrown a girl around at least. Maybe not punched but surely has been physical. If the small chance it hasn't happened it will.

The cameras being there are probably the only reason it hasn't been worse. When you can't control yourself punching walls, fridges, etc, big red flag. He is a complete control freak.

[–] conniedavid 7 years ago

I agree about Peter. The guy is a legit psychopath. Jenn is really a sweet girl, it was hard to watch her go down the road that so many abused women went down and go down every single day. I really hope his abuse doesn't escalate and I truly hope it stopped after the show, although I really don't think it did. The guy is nuts. :/

[–] electronicoffee 7 years ago

LOL, I've actually been in a real abusive relationship. Peter is not an abuser.
Rude maybe? Quick to anger maybe, but he's done nothing that's abusive, you moron.

Cause I ride like Kelly Bundy, Yo I keep that *beep* nasty~ (Spank Rock)

[–] conniedavid 7 years ago

Are you kidding me? There are many different ways to abuse a person. I too have seen abuse and yes that is exactly how they act. He screamed at Jenn, told her that her ass is fat, called her ugly and stupid, punched walls, told her that she is not allowed to dance and dress a way in which he doesn't approve of, kept threatening her with leaving her and giving her ultimatums and much much more which we only saw a portion of. Then at the end of the fights he buys her food and flowers as if that makes it up to his *beep* behavior. This is exactly how abusive relationships begin and he will get worse and worse with time, let's not even think about what happens if they get married. It's really sad.

[–] electronicoffee 7 years ago

Omg 'screaming' at someone is abuse now? Saying someone is fat is abuse now? *beep* you, you're the reason women get the bad rap for crying wolf. Everything that's negative or annoying or rude is now abuse and you know what DOUBLE *beep* YOU for belittling and devaluing the experience of ACTUAL abuse victims by claiming that petty nonsense is abuse. You're *beep* sick. You DISGUST me. You're like one of those college feminists who are like 'I got drunk and sucked 3 dicks and I was raped cause I was sooooooo drunk' saying that to someone who was legit raped with a sleeping pill or by force. *beep* YOU.

Cause I ride like Kelly Bundy, Yo I keep that *beep* nasty~ (Spank Rock)

[–] flipflopseveryday 7 years ago

100% truth. We watched Peter groom his future victim on television.

[–] anxiety attack 7 years ago

You'd have to be a complete dumbass to marry that nutball.